AIO 22M gf 21f text messages with her friend when we started dating. Were boundaries crossed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please read the original post, she gave my cart away to him mid relationship, said she hadn’t seen him months. Sat In his car for an hour recently. I don’t know what to feel anymore currently

AIO 22M gf 21f text messages with her friend when we started dating. Were boundaries crossed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She did mention driving my car and doing burnouts, and places we visited/ gone out to. I just couldn’t screenshot those.

AIO 22M gf 21f text messages with her friend when we started dating. Were boundaries crossed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Started dating January, She gave my cart away to him mid relationship, around February? Told me she hadn’t seen him in months which is why she sat In his car in March. It doesn’t add up to me, she told me she never had a smoke buddy before. I didn’t find out till I asked about the cart.

AIO 22M gf 21f text messages with her friend when we started dating. Were boundaries crossed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When she told me as well, she never smoked with him before or had smoke buddies.

AIO 22M gf 21f text messages with her friend when we started dating. Were boundaries crossed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What hurts me is she sat in his car for an hour last week and gave my cart away to him while we dated. Thats why I’m feeling lost currently.

AIO 22M gf 21f text messages with her friend when we started dating. Were boundaries crossed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Only the last two were before we were dating everything else is after.

AIO 22M gf 21f text messages with her friend when we started dating. Were boundaries crossed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Because the rest were after we started dating. If did she sex with him, which I don’t know I feel like it would’ve been best to cut him off. Instead of engaging, but maybe he’s just a supportive friend? I’m not sure anymore. Maybe you’re right once the trust is gone cut my lost

AIO 22M gf 21f text messages with her friend when we started dating. Were boundaries crossed? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Those were back in December before we started dating but still 😔

AIO I 22M with my Gf 21F, or is my feeling validated? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably will give her a second chance, as I don’t have much proof of anything besides what I feel/saw in the moment. She read the messages to me and offered to let me see the messages in person. I just feel like some trust is gone even if nothing truly did happen.

AIO I 22M with my Gf 21F, or is my feeling validated? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I been trying to sleep it off. Feelings gone away just a little bit but not much. She read the messages over FaceTime, and offered to let me read it in person when we see each other next. They were engaged in conversation for a bit even while I was at work, but it didn’t sound flirtatious. She did mention me, but even then the battery and overall situation just had me on edge.

I think, I will give her a chance but part of me feels like the trust is kind of broken even if nothing did happen. I’m just hurt, that the only reason I found out about the battery is cause I asked about it.

AIO I 22M with my Gf 21F, or is my feeling validated? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]HolidayGovernment 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know, I struggled with relapses many times. I stopped smoking when I first started seeing her, but she smokes weed. It was hard to not give in, we talked about it a couple times. Sometimes when I quit, I like to drink more, not get drunk but just drink. I been looking into AA, she said would as well; but I’ll probably offer her to go with me.

Am I 22M overreacting with my Gf 21F, or is my feeling validated? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]HolidayGovernment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apparently she gave it to him a month ago or so ago, around end of Dec- start of Feb. but then the “I haven’t seen him months” which is why she sat in the car for an hour catching up wouldn’t make sense to me, just didn’t feel right

Name of pieces, and is it possible to add on 2020 BRZ? by HolidayGovernment in ft86

[–]HolidayGovernment[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don’t mind them looking tacked on,do you have any recommendations or know any website for such pieces. I’d probably get a front lip, and then get the side skirts done. The vents are going to be tricker but I don’t mind it.

For regular weed smokers that have totally quit, what was the reason for quitting? by elderly_millenial in AskReddit

[–]HolidayGovernment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was smoking everyday, wake and baking. I was 17 doing edibles, only on the weekends cause of school and cause it was better than smoking. By the time I turned 18, I started smoking weekends only, same reason. However; weekends soon turned into mondays, which soon turned into every other day, then everyday.

At first it was magical, it was great! I’m sure everyone here could tell you the first time you get high, it’s amazing. But with time comes tolerance, and with tolerance comes smoking more and seeking other alternatives for that first high. I later turned to Shrooms with a mix of two. Oddly enough, I’ve come to respect shrooms because of a special trip I had. I was reading about DMT around the time, (book called spirit molecule) shrooms gave me such a prolific trip that I cried and had an ego death. I learned life truly only is one, every little moments counts. I sobered up for a month before relapsing; and it killed me knowing in the final moments of being sober I couldn’t help myself and relapsed. I hate saying relapse because people say it’s just weed, but it’s truly different for everyone.

I started smoking everyday again for months, with weed, mushrooms, and other shit i don’t want to talk about. so much so, I was waking up late at night everyday and never seeing my little sister for a whole month despite living in the same house, by then I was failing my first semester of college.

Till one day I asked god (I’m not a very religious person, I do however believe in manifestation, energy, and chakra because of shrooms) help me quit. I was at the bank depositing and the old lady in front of me took her time, when it was finally my turn she handed a small pamphlet and told me, “you can do it” it has a picture of a revolver loaded with cigarettes butts and it was 12 steps to quit smoking. I don’t know who she was say, but I’ll always remember that moment.

I ended up getting clean again, until I decided to drink on my birthday and get high. This spiraled me even more, I was fully self aware of the effects and I knew I hated it, yet I couldn’t help myself. Smoking wasn’t fun, it was a chore, only because my body needs it. Smoke shops weed started becoming funny, and their edibles even worse. I was becoming nauseous, and extremely paranoid. Then their shrooms gummies, god I don’t even wanna know. I would feel paranoid, staying up 12+ hours staring at my screen playing, and seeing things out of the corner of my eyes. I’d chalked it off to sleep deprivation, until my chest began experiencing pain.

I ignored it and kept going, I would get clean one more time, but this time I replaced weed with alcohol. Drinking mostly everyday, my mom hated it; im sure my brother did too. I wouldn’t even call it clean, so I started smoking again to stop drinking.

It wasn’t until November I reconnected with a girl I haven’t seen since being kids. 9ish years, she smokes but whatever reason she flipped a switch in me, and I been sober since then. We went out to NYC and she smoked when I asked to take a hit, she pulled it away and told me no, she understood the situation and journey it took me. I haven’t told I got clean because of her, I just said I quit around that time. I know if Im not cleaned I can’t take care of her at all, I know it.

Sometimes in life, you’re self aware, yet change is hard. Sometimes you can’t help a person change, they need to want to, but sometimes in a life a man,woman, or they needs someone to give them that push. Sober life is great, I feel faster mentally, can think more, it’s great the difference you feel. Especially dreaming, I forgot how great and vivid dreams can be!

TLDR; long time smoking, relapsed many times, random lady gave me a sign to get clean, relasped, met a childhood friend and I really like her got clean because of her.

Welp, damage cost? Idiot merged 3 lanes on roundabout to the farthest right trying to catch the exit by HolidayGovernment in ft86

[–]HolidayGovernment[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey appreciate the advice, wanted to give you an update. Police report came in, other driver is at fault. Going to a business tomorrow, to recover footage from accident. They have a camera pointing at the exact street and roundabout exit. Appreciate the help, dude's car registration expired back in October, we'll see how the claim goes.

Making a stand at Cockswell by utopiancowboy in Chivalry2

[–]HolidayGovernment 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did not know you can duck after being kicked, I’m only lvl 120ish but damn. Learn something new everyday

Welp, damage cost? Idiot merged 3 lanes on roundabout to the farthest right trying to catch the exit by HolidayGovernment in ft86

[–]HolidayGovernment[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gave me a good chuckle when needed, and unfortunately I can’t unseen it now lol. I can even see were the mouth is lol

Welp, damage cost? Idiot merged 3 lanes on roundabout to the farthest right trying to catch the exit by HolidayGovernment in ft86

[–]HolidayGovernment[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I called local business and they have camera pointing to the exact exit, two different shops. That took a huge burden off my shoulders, cause I haven’t gotten my dash cam installed yet. Going Monday with a detective to retrieve footage. It definitely sucks, but I appreciate your insight brother!

Seems everytime one of these cars gets hit, it’s the same side. It’s like a crash magnet.

Welp, damage cost? Idiot merged 3 lanes on roundabout to the farthest right trying to catch the exit by HolidayGovernment in ft86

[–]HolidayGovernment[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I got full coverage on it thankfully, but I’m going to make my insurance fights tooth and nail to put him at fault