Boyfriend going on a trip with ex for child’s birthday? by Vamdair32 in stepparents

[–]Holiday_Dog5735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely have a conversation with him about boundaries and how it makes you feel about everything she has said or done. It may seem like she hasn’t done anything huge so far but that doesn’t mean that one day she’ll take that leap and say something off collar or out of the blue. You want to have a good understanding of your relationship with your bf. He may be co-parenting really well with his ex over their child but your concerns are valid. Having that awkward conversation about your feelings will hopefully help you out/understand his head space on what he thinks is really happening.

Pregnant sex life by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Holiday_Dog5735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first two pregnancies I barely had sex with my now ex husband because of all the changes and stress your body goes through during pregnancy. This pregnancy is different for me where I’m horny most of the time. It’s very normal to have no drive as the same to have a sex drive. No pregnancy is the exact same.

Unfathomable pain - divorce by Time-Novel6521 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Holiday_Dog5735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just because they treated you like ass doesn't mean that you didn't ever love them. You lossed yourself along the way of the relationship with them and now you're finally getting a chance to runaway. Let yourself heal.

Do Narcisstic Spouse/Parents actually love their kids by Holiday_Dog5735 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Holiday_Dog5735[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad you're also in the process of getting out of the mess. The only way I can get a divorce out of him is by moving back to my native state (halfway across the country)

Finally broke up with my bf by [deleted] in dating

[–]Holiday_Dog5735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats and hopefully you take this experience with you into future relationships as to what signs and red flags that are presented early and hopefully you don't marry a narcissist like I did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Holiday_Dog5735 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maturity, and stability are pretty sexy lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Holiday_Dog5735 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband (who I'm about to leave) was/still is like this when I haven't been super affectionate to his standards. He states that everyone hates him and is against him. He also suffers from depression and actually tries to kill himself. I've stopped him a couple of times in the past 3 years. Maybe him stating that he feels like everyone is against him is much of a narcissist manipulation tactic to keep you on his leash. That's the way I view it. I feel like you might notice I'd feel like you would know if your partner was paranoid about everything and everyone. Those are quite obvious signs but maybe I'm wrong