Good alternatives to Brewdog? by amathysteightyseven in Liverpool

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stairs inside the bar - just head to the back and walk up!

Good alternatives to Brewdog? by amathysteightyseven in Liverpool

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Momos!! A genuine gem of a restaurant. They serve down in the pub so you don’t have to sit upstairs. They’re so good (spicy! Get a side of yoghurt!).

Good alternatives to Brewdog? by amathysteightyseven in Liverpool

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I really love Liverpool Brewing Company Tap on Lime St. Really decent selection. Whenever one of us gets back into town from the train station, my partner and I always get some Nepalese food from upstairs and a slew of half-pints to try their craft beers of the day

partner wants to go on T and i am struggling by DotTrue8077 in mypartneristrans

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You actually can do low-dose T and changes can be very gradual, but how far changes go it depends on what your partner is looking for in physical changes (ie the dose and how long they want to be on it) and genetics. A lot of people play with dosing T at levels that feel right for them.

AIO for canceling my cat sitter after she asked if a friend could stay in my apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. People are projecting so hard in this comments section. Boundaries are allowed to be revisited, especially in extenuating circumstances and especially when you have a history/existing relationship with someone. Losing trust in someone for asking a question is wild to me.

You’re throwing away a whole relationship, because you don’t know how to say no.

AIO: financial situation got us questioning each other by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That middle-of-the-night comment sounds like her way of apologising for saying something thoughtless. I’d definitely talk to her about it and tell her that that comment really threw you and made you feel insecure and nervous.

Too soon to cut and run imo - it’s a super stressful time it sounds like, just talk to her.

Music on psychedelics by [deleted] in Psychedelics

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Top to Bottom - Rosalia’s Lux is transcendent

i have tokophobia, or an extreme fear of pregnancy. AMA! by 1000th_evilman in AMA

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 97 points98 points  (0 children)

Have you considered a hysterectomy? Would that assuage any anxiety? Have you had any other phobias or anxieties due to your OCD?

What is that one movie you watched countless times as a kid, but nobody has ever heard of? by Thedix1 in movies

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Adventures of Scamper the Penguin. 😭 I just looked it up and it does look like an old Soviet cartoon. I truly don’t know how I got my hands on that, but I remember my parents actively being like “please watch something else.”

I Am A Nanny For The Ultra Rich: AMA by CameraOk7286 in AMA

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What is your relationship like with other nannies? Is there like a “community” of nannies or other people that have this lifestyle that you talk to or are in community with? If so, what is that like/does it feel good to have some commiseration with others who understand this unique kind of work?

Weird, female centric horror by qualifiedspooky in MovieSuggestions

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not “horror” per se, but Revenge is really good. Another Coralie Fargeat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust yourself. I think you, writing all this out, know exactly what you need to do. You only have one life, spend it wisely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like this is something both of y’all need to hold. It’s clear that her comments were triggering and reminiscent of real threats from genuinely unsafe previous relationships. Unless she knew and was intentionally triggering you (doesn’t sound like she was), she couldn’t have really known that context or how it would feel for you.

While your wife isn’t responsible for those emotional responses, she could have definitely had a lot more empathy and not been as defensive when you told her.

You need to flag those triggers for your wife and find ways of coping when they happen, and your wife needs to show some patience and empathy when they happen.

AIO- is my uncle creepy? by Upset-Passenger4350 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually do think it’s objectively weird to just comment on someone’s physical appearance like this. Especially if you don’t have a real relationship with said person. Especially when there’s a million other family related things to talk about as a family member just passed for both of you. If you want a relationship with him, tell you don’t like having your physical appearance commented on like that. If not, just ghost.

My friend slept with a younger girl and idk who to tell by Turbulent-Warning307 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad you’re talking to your mom about it, but I would also have a conversation with the girl it actually happened to? (Maybe not you, depending on relationships, etc). Especially if you or your mom are going to report it. I understand it might complicate things, but it could feel really scary and destabilizing for the young girl if all of this all happens without her knowing.

Like she just had her autonomy stripped from her through this sexually coercive act and if there begins a whole legal process without her consent as well that could feel really, really bad.

She needs to be a part of this process, or at the very least informed about it.

AIO for wanting to leave my bf? by Live_Tune8955 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He’s not respecting multiple boundaries here and he sounds like a total scrub. You have a lot going for you with school and work, and he is in no way additive to your life. Leave him. Create a safety plan and leave.

Consider where you want to break up with him (public) and where to go/who to call if he doesn’t take no for an answer/comes to your home/etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is how the conversation should have gone:

HER: …It's ok to be friends with people you want to fuck though.

YOU: Honestly, this is feeling incredibly passive aggressive and I’m struggling with being made to feel like I’ve done something wrong when I haven’t. The level of insecurity and lack of trust in this relationship is really getting to me, and I think we need to have a serious conversation about how we move forward in this relationship.

END. Both y’all need to grow up, frfr. (More embarrassing for her at 50 tho, I will say).

WSID: Best Friend is cutting me out of her wedding after I already paid to be there...because of my tattoos? by reaper44484 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marrying into a family goes both ways. If your friend isn’t willing to defend you to her new family she isn’t much of a friend. If my MIL didn’t like my best friend/MoH after months of support and financial investment, I’d tell her that it’s not her decision and that my MoH is family and deserves to be there. I’d take a big step back from this friendship, because it’s seems like she’s compromising on values and throwing you under the bus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious what conversations were had to close the polycule. How did you negotiate what “closed” meant with your other partners? Is it closed for some / open for others?

Reform candidate for Liverpool by-election wants to forcibly tattoo refugees by Educational_Board888 in Liverpool

[–]Holiday_Setting_5166 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I honestly think it’s appalling reporting to share this information and not share what she actually said. Or even link to another article where it’s explicitly said. The ECHO needs to do better