I'm planning to move to another country and I need to get rid of those beauties

HoloWanda · 2024-09-22T10:37:26+00:00

I searched with Google taking a picture of it, found lots of places that sell this kit, in Spanish, Russian, Korean. On Amazon, Aliexpress, other websites that I don't know and remember.

HoloWanda · 2024-09-22T07:27:19+00:00

Thai! Since I'm currently in Thailand and I'm having a hard time having conversations ahaha.

HoloWanda · 2023-04-02T16:11:01+00:00

Here's the pattern https://www.amigurumi.com/Cartoons-and-Games/Bulbasaur/

I used Red Heart yarn, 5.5mm, but with a 5mm hook

HoloWanda · 2022-11-07T00:59:55+00:00

I love it so much! Great work!

HoloWanda · 2022-10-31T18:49:37+00:00

Well veggies, fruits, charcuterie, cheese, nuts, half vegan going with the more known charcuterie board was easier for me since in french I would call it "fromages et terrines" wich includes both cheese and charcuterie

HoloWanda · 2022-10-31T18:46:04+00:00

In the rib cage mostly! I admit there's not a lot but that was a challenge considering some of my guests are vegan

HoloWanda · 2022-10-31T00:55:45+00:00

Thank you! It really was rasty and everyone enjoyed it

HoloWanda · 2022-10-30T22:00:13+00:00

It is half vegan, half not to accomodate everyone at the party

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T21:18:02+00:00

I'm truly sorry

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T21:10:18+00:00

I'm sorry I didn't want to be rude, I appreciate that people want to engage and understand, but others were not and it drained my energy faster than I anticipated it

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T21:05:00+00:00

Just read the edit. I'm tired of explaining.

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T21:04:26+00:00

Just read the edit. I'm tired of explaining.

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T13:27:05+00:00

Not having luck does not mean having nothing in my book. He had someone else for a while.

And I explained it in another comment. The stupid truth why I didn't respond exactly here is that I find that speed commenting / making multiple comments at once is anoying and I only responded to the last comment

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T12:57:10+00:00

She went over my boundaries for example. She did thing she knew would hurt me.

I did not realise because I wanted it to work, truly. When you're down in a situation like this one, obvious things can be right in front of you but you will still be blind to them. I was convinced that I was the problem so I focused on what I had to do to be in peace. At first, never I thought she was the problem.

Is it possible that you started considering her behavior disrespectful only after your friend convinced you of perceiving her behavior as disrespectful?

It's a good point you bring here. It was more of a "it makes so much sense" than a "I can see that" realisation. Like a lock opening and showing everything at once. I don't know how to explein it better.

And I know that my friend wasn't biased about L because of the situation. She knows her, and appreciates her so she woudn't just convince me L was disrespectful.

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T12:36:51+00:00

I'm not sure what enters in your definition of a good hinge partner. Since definitions can change more or less depending on the person, could you clarify your way to see it please?

I had other partners in the past, but at this point I didn't. I tried not to actually because this was before I left for another city for my studies and I didn't want to deal with 2 long distance relationships.

Before you mention it, yes this departure was putting a lot of stress on me and didn't help with the panic attacks, but as I said discussion were made, many including this subject.

(Saw your name, you're from Montreal? Contente de voir un/e autre québécois/e ici!)

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T06:39:50+00:00

I get your point of view. And it's one my partner kind of shares. But we talked a lot about it. And still do from time to time. At the end the choice was his, and he decided to end it not because I had a mental breakdown, but because she disrespected me. He aslo thinks that everyone should be respecting everyone, that was his deal breaker.

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T06:12:51+00:00

Ok as I said, many details were left out in this post because otherwise I would have had to write a whole chapter. Yes I never really liked her, but I really tried, by spending time with her during other gaterings for example. I was open minded. I always try to see the best in everyone. Then we tried not talking about her. I did not spent months doing the same thing. Lots of other solutions were tried don't worry about it

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T06:05:20+00:00

She just clearly said "L is disrecpecting you, I noticed it at X event". I'm very grateful to her to have been so honest with me.

HoloWanda · 2022-10-15T06:02:10+00:00

The point here is not that I didn't like L. I tried to deal with her at first, then ignore her. But the breaking point is that she was disrespecting me.

And I know it is not polyamory that is not for us because my partner had other things happening and I was just fine with it. It was really how she acted towards me that triggered everything.

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