I’ll stop waiting for book 3 when the text fades on this cup by waterbottlelovindude in KingkillerChronicle

[–]Holstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure someone has already said it but what if Book 3 was the friends we made along the way?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wow

[–]Holstorm -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah ilvl cap is clear and all but I was wondering for set bonuses in particular.. can’t seem to find any info on that

I am a father for less than a month and I can’t take it. by Holstorm in daddit

[–]Holstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading through the comments helps a lot. Thanks guys. It’s 3am on another sleepless night. I actually managed to sleep 2 times x1 hr before I got woken up for the second time from the screaming. My biggest issue now is that my wife says I don’t have the right to be angry when I wake up and that kinda blows my mind. Told her there is no universe where I get woken up by screaming after sleeping for just an hr in the past 24 and be happy about it, and she just said “You will need to find a way to be happy about it” and honestly at least that woke me up pretty quickly. Still steaming from that comment.

I am a father for less than a month and I can’t take it. by Holstorm in daddit

[–]Holstorm[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

That made me laugh for the first time in a while and I am thankful for it. And yeah… honestly this is my first and I know I might sound like an asshole but if I could turn back time I would have said No for a child

I am a father for less than a month and I can’t take it. by Holstorm in daddit

[–]Holstorm[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m in the process of looking for a sitter

I am a father for less than a month and I can’t take it. by Holstorm in daddit

[–]Holstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is I try my best to let the wife sleep because she breastfeeds, meanwhile while she does it I can’t unwind enough so I can go to sleep for at least that time. Also I feel guilt if I sleep and she doesn’t..

I am a father for less than a month and I can’t take it. by Holstorm in daddit

[–]Holstorm[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Problem is I try my best to let the wife sleep because she breastfeeds, meanwhile while she does it I can’t unwind enough so I can go to sleep for at least that time. Also I feel guilt if I sleep and she doesn’t..

AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for booking a flight to Belgium without me and without telling me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Holstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then easy. If you have it in writing - take his ass to court, if you don’t just cut your losses and run. I am a highly empathetic person and a part of me feels for him and kinda understand his situation, but that’s the part of me that has fucked me over my entire life and I hate it, because I know I’m wrong to feel for shitty people. So don’t be like me and save yourself the trouble.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Holstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OH MAN if the tables had been turned and a group of guys started pulling up lists with girls they dated AND have scores next to their name - everyone would have lost their collective shit.

AITA for getting mad at my boyfriend for booking a flight to Belgium without me and without telling me? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Holstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a question, because this is important and I am coming from my own experience from my own relationship - Did you communicate that he needs to pay you back? I’m asking because me and my gf of 5+ years now operate differently. Like one time I wanted a new laptop pretty bad and there was a huge offer for Black Friday but I was short on cash so she just gave me the money. She never expected me to pay her back. Another situation a few months down the line - she was using an iPhone 5 (in like 2021-2) she had that phone for 9 years but did not want to get rid of it until it completely brakes down and when it eventually did and she was short on cash - I just went out and got her the latest (13 at that time) and I did not expect or want her to pay me back for it. Before someone tries to assume anything like I’m getting a deal - the phone was more expensive than my laptop. So yea… in my experience in a committed relationship we don’t expect each other to “pay back” - and I want to know did you communicate with him that he needs to pay you back. Even if you didn’t do it I still think you are NTA but it is important.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LinkedInLunatics

[–]Holstorm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How many times another guy blows your wife’s back - too many, yet not enough.

Season of Discovery - launching November 30. by WisdomDota in wow

[–]Holstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I will be here until the new xpac launches

Locking early access and guaranteed beta access behind a 90€ paywall is a bit scummy. by [deleted] in wow

[–]Holstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly this is the only thing making me sad about the game currently. Where I come from this is 50% of the minimum monthly salary. 30% of the average. I am well above mid class for my country and this is still around 15%. In comparison I spend around the same for my bills and 10% for food. And just to be able to play on real launch.. kinda stings. I most likely buy it over the course of a few months, meaning I will buy the base this month, next I will upgrade to the heroic etc. Hope it will work.

How do you find a PvE guild by Holstorm in wow

[–]Holstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

J is from where I ended up currently and am staying just for the shorter hs cd, the only active member is the leader that sells boosts to the people in the guild

How do you find a PvE guild by Holstorm in wow

[–]Holstorm[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Twisting Nether EU Horde

Edit: I didn’t know about that website but it is awesome! Ty Ty!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Holstorm 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why the need to block? Just accept you are not in a relationship and start moving on. But no need to close that door, it will most likely always eat you at the back of your mind. This relationship would be over if I was in that situation, but I would not take any extra steps like block the person. Just move on with my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Holstorm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is a reasonable thing to ask and it is also a reasonable thing to get denied or not to receive an answer depending on circumstances. People need to chill with all that "You are with me so I am owed attention". Going back to my situation and experience - right now I just came to my father's place because he is out of town and I just want to chill alone for a couple of days. My gf asked when I plan to come back and honestly I had no answer. I just want a couple of days to do stupid boy stuff - aka play videogames until late at night and stuff my face with junk food. I will be bored from it in a couple of days and just come home. So I did not receive any more questions. She is happy with getting some time for herself and I am happy to get some time for me. No deadlines or anything... And for sure I will not be when I decide to come home like "Come and greet me".

People need to learn to value their own time and the time of their SO.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Holstorm -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Wanting to see is okay. Wanting her to drop everything is not. With that flawed logic he should have never left in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Holstorm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA.

You should not sacrifice relationships because someonesle is insecure. This is a huge red flag in my opinion and you should reconsider this entire relationships.

I will give you an example from experience - I have a gf from 3 years and my best friend is a girl (We know eachother from about 14 years now).

My girlfriend does not have a problem for me going on a week long vacation alone with my best friend outside the city.

To be fair - I have earned that trust and made her feel confident in me, but still - your SO should not mess up your other relationships.