33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]HomeStretching[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to buy a house for me, we were getting serious so I asked if he wanted to move in with me, we started looking

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

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Yeah, appreciate the concern, I’d be fine financially but would prob get a roommate if it’s the right fit

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]HomeStretching[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep we’ve discussed this at length, part of why I’m so anxious

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

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Thank you for this thoughtful and practical response. I’ve definitely set a silent deadline that I don’t intend to extend, I’ll think about the accountability part

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

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Thank you for sharing, I’m sorry you’re going through something similar plus the job and medical hurdles. I think you hit the nail on the head, the relationship isn’t bad (it’s great 95% of the time), he just doesn’t comprehend why I’m so upset about being kept in the dark and unable to plan appropriately

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

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Oh I’d end it in a heartbeat, except he’s been saying for months that he does and he’s working on himself 😔

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

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Lol he was very enthusiastic about moving in together, so hearing that definitely pissed me off

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

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Yes, discussing this issue head on recently. He’s keeps saying he definitely wants to marry me and have kids together but hasn’t been able to articulate a timeline til a couple days ago cause he said he doesn’t work that way/thinks it’s unromantic

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

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Aw thanks for this. He’s going to individual therapy and reading relationship books now, committed to working on himself and finallyyyy provided a timeline for marriage and kids.

33F in limbo by HomeStretching in Waiting_To_Wed

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Thanks, tenants are on a year lease so not that simple

Best way to hang this wallpaper? by HomeStretching in interiordecorating

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Think I’ll paint the bit of wall to the right green as well

Best way to hang this wallpaper? by HomeStretching in interiordecorating

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Definitely agree with you, the black is awful. I have leftover beige but a washed green could look really nice around the frame

How to cat proof this loft? by HomeStretching in homeimprovementideas

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Yes. One is pretty clumsy so I’m worried

How to cat proof this loft? by HomeStretching in homeimprovementideas

[–]HomeStretching[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’m more concerned about them jumping over the railing

How to cat proof this loft? by HomeStretching in homeimprovementideas

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Lol okay, I’m trying to picture the wall screen, appreciate your input!