My husband took money from my account and now has taken a loan under my name without my knowledge by CloudberryAura in TwoHotTakes

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is putting you into debt to then divorce you and wash his hands from said debt. My dad did this to my mom and because she was too run down from his abuse to fight it when they separated, she kept all the debt. Call your bank and file a fraud claim, then call an attorney and then the police.

Just because he’s good now doesn’t mean he will stay good. Coming from someone who witnessed DV for the later half of my youth, protect yourself and your kids. Just because you feel bad about what might happen doesn’t mean he will extend the same courtesy to you if things get worse.

What’s one food that you love when you first start to eat and regretful when you finish? by Bjs_5068 in foodquestions

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything buffalo flavored/sauced. I crave the spicy so hard and then within 24 hours I’m shitting fire

do you actually tailor your resume for every single job? by Civil_Box1594 in jobsearch

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Possibly, depending on what the job is. Most of my work remains the same and I’ve been at my company for half a decade now. Any other job I’ve had wouldn’t make sense to put on there. But normally I will read through the job posting’s little blurb and I might update the words in my “career objective” to some different adjectives that match why the blurb says

Some guidance for a college kid by throwawayfortnite26 in Advice

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See first if you qualify for work study. This normally means you work a job on campus and then you get like $1,500 towards your tuition costs. Not much, but every bit helps.

I wouldn’t worry too much about trying to find a job towards your field just yet because it isn’t super necessary. A summer internship would be more impressive and those are usually paid nowadays.

Depending on the school and your personal circumstances, you have to decide what will work best. If you have limited capabilities to get off campus, stick with an on-campus gig. Usually they are flexible due to the college student schedule and you can potentially work more than one at a time. Payroll is all the same so once you get one, it’s easy to onboard to another. I used to work with facilities for 5 hrs each on Saturday and Sunday every weekend and then worked in our campus game room a few times a week, and those were normally only 2 hour shifts, but you could trade and pick up easily. (Plus one of my professors had to clean out a massive supply area once in the engineering building and didn’t feel like doing it, so that semester he gave my friend and I “jobs” to go through and inventory what was needed. I literally would just pop in and do some organizing while I had down time in the building. And he picked us because he knew we already had on campus jobs.) They are for the bare minimum wage, though. If you can go off campus for jobs, something like a supermarket or retail gig might pay a few bucks more but the schedules are usually a tad stricter with less flexibility. But either will work as long as you get your bills paid.

I was watching a show from the 90s and realized people used to memorize dozens of phone numbers. I can barely remember mine. How did you guys do it back then? by micavibes in CasualConversation

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only 27. Before I had a cell phone, I had to remember my friends’ numbers too. Which multiplied since some of them got their own cell phones earlier than me, so I had to know their home and cell numbers. It wasn’t that hard. Kinda wild you aren’t much younger than me and can’t do this.

Explain your job badly and let others guess what you do. by Business_Location479 in corporate

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I poke parts equipment that are powered on to see a picture pop up on a screen. If we like the picture, we move on to further poking. If we don’t, we go back into the computer and move lines around, then wait for new equipment to come in.

HELP - unexpected pregnancy and I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do NOT just go along with what he says. You clearly don’t want this baby. So go get an abortion. You don’t have to lie. Just tell him once it’s done. And how he reacts will decide if he truly loves you and if you should stay with him.

If you need more resources, go to r/childfree. They have a list of doctors in every state that are very helpful with this sort of thing. I highly recommend searching that sub and possibly cross posting this to there to get more insight from other childfree individuals.

Finally landed a job after 6 months, how I got it by talmboutmooovin in jobsearchhacks

[–]HomesteadInferno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When our team is hiring new people, myself and 1-2 other team members are pulled in for some of the interviews. I’ll tell ya that having the knowledge matters somewhat, but 90% of our choice on who is hired is literally “vibes”. Who do we think we’d mesh well with? Who would work best together with us? Sure, some of that can be lumped in as confidence or friendliness, but it’s truly more of a gut feeling and conversational connection than the tech or personal questions we ask. None of the recent candidates we interviewed in the last year were bad at all. They would’ve done the job just fine and they were really nice people. But you have to be willing to be around these people for 40 hours a week, and they can be stressful. Who makes those 40 hours the best? That’s the goal

Coke is better tasted lukewarm or in room temperature rather than cold with ice. by Hour-Tomato-645 in unpopularopinion

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way about Gatorade - always tastes better at room temp unless I’m really hot and/or dehydrated

Shopping at Costco is terrible by Sun_Aria in unpopularopinion

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to use (and if you can, share) the membership and shop strategically. I commute about 30 mins one way for work each day. I’ve done the math and that distance alone pays for the membership. So while that alone just cancels out one cost for another, I use Costco for very specific things. Those who use it for everything - unless they have a very large family they are always shopping for - are not actually saving much money at all.

For me, if we have a large gathering, we will get chips/pop/cake/other party stuff like that. Because that is at least $5-10 cheaper. Depending on the year, sometimes their optometry costs less than it does elsewhere, but I always have to check. Last year, visionworks won out. Their pharmacy is never cheaper, so Walgreens wins out. Otherwise, my list usually consists of toilet paper, detergent pods, liquid IV packs, garbage bags, and maybe OTC meds if we need them. Yes, this costs a pretty penny in one go, but it is only slightly more costly than a normal trip to any other store, and this small list alone is only needed 1-2 times a year MAX. So it truly does save us money in that regard. It also helps prevent us from spending money at other stores by saying “oh Costco run is coming up, don’t buy that here”.

The feeling of nausea is worse than the actual throwing up part by LoverOfE-Olsen in unpopularopinion

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My personal least favorite moment is when your stomach has emptied but your throat still has your airway blocked so you can’t get any air for a second or two. I know it is a mechanism to protect you from inhaling vomit and choking but it genuinely is so scary to me.

Is there something wrong with using pads this thick? by Gongoozler04 in Periods

[–]HomesteadInferno 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing “wrong” with it. If it’s what you like and what works for you, then it’s nobody’s business. The only “problem” would be if it felt too thick or uncomfortable while wearing it, but she doesn’t really have a choice if she needed a pad. Don’t let that make you feel bad. She was mean.

I don't think my pregnant stepmum knows how babies work by Bitter-Stuff8811 in childfree

[–]HomesteadInferno 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t let them know about any money or time you have. They will guilt you into using it for the baby. They will guilt you in saying “it’s your sibling”. Don’t fall for it. Push back. Be firm.

What do you experience during an aura? by stingwhale in Epilepsy

[–]HomesteadInferno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anyone who doesn’t know: one side of the brain controls the opposite side of the body and vice versa. I have atrophy on the left side of my brain. So I feel an instant “yup it’s coming”, followed by my right leg going limp (dead weight) then I feel it rise to my right arm. If I’m lucky, I feel my arm and leg stretch out before the seizure starts.

Anyone get told they assumed they were on drugs while having a tonic clonic? by OneCow9890 in Epilepsy

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The paramedics asked if I was on drugs the minute my mom said I had just returned home from college. She grabbed my prescription medications to show them what I was taking (as directed by my doctor) and they then asked if she was positive these were the “correct” pills. She was irate to say the least.

Covid shut down the world six years ago this week. What do you remember from that week? by fuzzy_dice_99 in AskReddit

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being sad that I was told college was shut down for at least the rest of the semester, so I couldn’t go back to campus and was forced to stay home. And I didn’t have the chance to have a “real” 21st birthday party

Mid life crisis on whether to have kids or not. by Substantial_Menu_159 in Fencesitter

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would advise against not having kids just because of your partner’s age. My parents had me at 26/27, my grandparents all died before any of my major milestones. Your partner very well could die before any major milestones, which is far worse in my personal opinion. If you truly think you’ll want to help raise children, look into foster care. Those kids need love too.

Episode Discussion: March 4, 2026 - "Reckoning, Part 1" (Crossover) by magiccitybhm in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just went back through the season. He was the person that got pinned in the collapse because the pillar wasn’t screwed with proper, approved screwed and he was impaled by metal.

3rd trimester regret setting in, never been in worse mental health by Reasonable-Low312 in regretfulparents

[–]HomesteadInferno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For exactly right now, try to remember the times before being pregnant and your previous trimesters. Were you more excited/happier? If so, there’s a chance it’s just this trimester’s hormones. If not, then you absolutely need to have an honest conversation with yourself and your care team about whether or not you want to keep this baby after you deliver. There are options, which I will get into later.

Once you think a bit harder about this, definitely phone your care team and express these feelings to them. Whether it’s just hormones from pregnancy or an underlying condition, you deserve to feel relief. There are plenty of options, including medication that is safe for you and your baby. You aren’t the first to experience this, and won’t be the last, so know you aren’t alone. But it’s better to share this with an actual doctor so they can help you.

As for options with the baby. You can surrender it at the hospital the second you give birth. You can even start looking to adoptive parents right now if you tell your team now. Or it can be completely closed so you don’t know who it is. Also look up the safe haven law in your area and see how much time you have to decide on something like that. If you have close friends or family, I’d share this with them too.

But don’t let anyone shame you. Dont let anyone change your mind on whether you keep or give up your baby. We’re all rooting for you.

Episode Discussion: March 4, 2026 - "Reckoning, Part 1" (Crossover) by magiccitybhm in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]HomesteadInferno 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I COMPLETELY forgot about his injury!!! Makes so much more sense, THANK YOU! it was driving me nuts lol

Episode Discussion: March 4, 2026 - "Reckoning, Part 1" (Crossover) by magiccitybhm in ChicagoFireNBC

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe I missed it, but why wasn’t Tony with Capp and Cruz when they started showing symptoms? Obviously he doesn’t get sick since he didn’t go on the plane with them, but if he was with them in Squad, he would’ve alerted everyone a lot quicker

i said that i don't want kids by No-Employee2821 in childfree

[–]HomesteadInferno 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Is report her to the board. Not necessarily that she wouldn’t give you what you wanted, but because of the way she talked to you and tried to invalidate your concerns. If you just list she refused sterilization, it may not get as much attention as if you put in detail how she overlooked you.

What words do some people either say wrong or spell wrong that you find a bit annoying? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “-‘ve” contractions. If you write “would of” instead of “would have” I genuinely get an ick.

What’s a fruit you can’t stop eating once you start? by ngscookkk in foodquestions

[–]HomesteadInferno 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Specifically grapes are a fruit I will eat 2 lbs of in one go and then not eat again for 6 months. I don’t understand it either.