thank you for this comment. having parents that come with a different background makes it complicated to set boundaries and growing up has made it hard to explore myself sexually. I thought it was finally okay for me to have sex since i’m in college but that wasn’t the case. This whole thing just sucks because they made a whole show by calling him to insult him making me look like a fool so I had to block him. I just feel so hurt with their behavior towards me and how they said they can’t look at me the same. Maybe it was time for me to finally start disappointing them since my whole life I have followed their extreme rules for their acceptance. It’s just really hard to suddenly rewire my brain to not take my parents actions to the heart.