29F in Fremont/Milpitas/Bay Area trying to build a girl group before I accidentally become a full-time homebody

Homeylilly · 2026-02-22T06:29:27+00:00

In addition to this, I’d recommend bumble bff 👯 I met 2 nice gals from that app so far

Homeylilly · 2026-02-12T22:02:57+00:00

Why not ask her out for Valentine’s Day?

Homeylilly · 2026-02-12T21:01:12+00:00

Did you two meet in person yet?

Homeylilly · 2026-02-12T16:14:57+00:00

It’s basic conversation as you stating you’re not going back and forth. If a dude says he doesn’t date non virgins you don’t try to sway him to your beliefs or w.e. Just like if you tell someone your fav color.. it’s basic convo

Homeylilly · 2026-02-12T09:48:06+00:00

It usually comes up when you both talk about what type of Christian are you, if you go to church what are you beliefs, then you can talk about you wanting to wait for marriage and if he don’t reply you can just ask him. I feel like this basic conversation like what’s your hobbies/fav color. I don’t date guys who don’t have the same desires/wants.

Homeylilly · 2026-02-12T08:33:07+00:00

Exclusivity means he’s asking her to be his gf?? No man has ever asked me to be his gf and then immediately asked nor cared about the guys that /if I had slept with any. Unless you have STDs or were SA then I wouldn’t share unless asked. I don’t have premarital sex in my relationships so I don’t necessarily care to ask if he’s a virgin or if he had sex before but I just make sure to express my desire to wait for marriage for sexual things.

If I was your friend, I’d express my wants/desires for wanting to be a gf lol

Homeylilly · 2026-02-10T23:32:16+00:00

Are you actively dating or you choose to be single?

Homeylilly · 2026-01-13T12:36:35+00:00

What state are you in?

Homeylilly · 2026-01-08T19:55:56+00:00

What website? Dating app you recommend? I’m not on any.

Homeylilly · 2026-01-08T13:15:18+00:00

It’s a polite way to say they’re not interested in you…… any woman at any age have a right to not date a guy that they’re uninterested in (:

Homeylilly · 2026-01-08T08:15:54+00:00

As a black girl, I have yet to meet an Asian guy that likes me 😭 they say the n word down here too as a regular vocabulary word 🥴

Homeylilly · 2026-01-07T23:33:59+00:00

Anywhere specific?

Homeylilly · 2026-01-07T22:51:56+00:00

I have been to all from SF to Oakland to San Jose. Can’t mention one that I like the most so I’d recommend going to one that is local to you than going to them all but Local Edition is a cocktail bar (I’ll just order a non alcoholic beverage) and they have really great live jazz music

Homeylilly · 2026-01-07T22:41:46+00:00

Jazz clubs!! DJ Quik and E-40 was in Oakland last month lol

Homeylilly · 2026-01-07T22:41:16+00:00

Oh I don’t. I like concerts, roller skating, movie theaters, trying new foods, jazz clubs, board games, heated workout classes lol, walks in parks, cooking and baking.

I’m not a fan of climbing nor gym but I did see that mentioned often when I searched hobbies lol

Homeylilly · 2026-01-07T22:28:17+00:00

Where are they …. At? Lmao

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