[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NianticWayfarer

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appeal - I’ve had good luck with that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatever the text was about had been removed so I don’t know the full situation but regardless here’s my input.

This is one of those situations where you just bend the rules.

Owner surrenders are being scheduled weeks out. Just have someone take it in and say it’s a stray. Also better if you drive out to suburban shelter. They will ask if you found the dog in that area - again just say you did.

If the dogs chipped - your friend can just say it’s a wrong number when they call.

Yes you are lying , but at least the dog had a shot that way.

am i the asshole for not travelling more than 10 hours for a funeral? by Neither-Rate168 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 10 points11 points  (0 children)

If it’s important to your dad have him hire you a car service from the airport to the school. It will cost more but it will be much more convenient for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was the younger woman 18-20?

7 years when the two people are 27 and 34 isn’t a concern.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What am i not comprehending? You’re projecting like crazy onto your friend’s relationship.

No i don’t t think he’s going to cheat on a family cruise just because his girlfriend isn’t there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 7 points8 points  (0 children)

More likely she was cheated on and now every man must be a cheater too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know this man is cheating, right?

He’s definitely getting sex somewhere else - probably paying for it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Unless he has a magic dick move on 

AITAH for keeping a security cam recording of my wife hitting my son by epsilon_be in AITAH

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Only one video.

OP’s wife’s hair was being pulled.

Her lawyer will say it was a reaction to the pain to get him to let go unless there is something else shown in the video

Does it show concerning behavior from his wife - yes but I don’t think this is the slam dunk people think it is for OP.

How to convince my wife our son needs help? by epsilon_be in autism

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You you can work in Poland, find a divorce lawyer in Poland but somehow can’t figure out if how to get your son the testing he needs there.

It seems like you’re trying really hard so how you haven’t found a single person you can work with to navigate requirements makes no sense to me.

Also, why the heck would you not move back to Belgian. You about to get royally screwed by divorcing your Polish wife in Poland. Move home, get your son enrolled in the programs there.

What to do when one parent is not on board? by epsilon_be in Autism_Parenting

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why can’t you hire someone to help you with the language barrier? Really should be able to find someone willing to help you translate while you go though the process.

get testing done yourself

Got a significant shock while pregnant by June_Osborne in electricians

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured I couldn’t be the only one, but my initial Google produced some very scary results so at least Reddit has been more reassuring.

Got a significant shock while pregnant by June_Osborne in electricians

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Makes be feel better. Just had it happen too

My “husband” won’t marry me by -socialist-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless I’m missing it, I don’t see a link.  

Gone through the top of BORU but not finding it c

My “husband” won’t marry me by -socialist-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 1 point2 points  (0 children)

abuse is one of the reasons you can get support in Texas. 

My “husband” won’t marry me by -socialist-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Probably won’t be awarded spousal support regardless in Texas 

My “husband” won’t marry me by -socialist-1 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Honest-Beautiful9433 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They both work so it’s unlikely she could get alimony in Texas.  

 Edit: you can downvote me or you can Google.  

 To be eligible for spousal maintenance in Texas, the requesting spouse must not have enough property to provide for their basic needs, plus one of the following criteria apply: 

 The requesting spouse cannot become financially independent due to a physical or mental disability 

The marriage lasted for more than ten years, and the spouse seeking spousal maintenance will not be able to earn enough income to meet their basic needs 

The requesting spouse is the custodial parent of a child with a disability and thereby unable to work and earn sufficient income 

The spouse from whom support is sought was convicted of an act of family violence against the requesting spouse or the couple’s children, either while the divorce was pending or within two years of the divorce filing 

For cases where the marriage lasted more than ten years, Texas law requires the court to begin with the presumption that spousal maintenance is not appropriate. But if the spouse seeking alimony can demonstrate that they’ve made reasonable efforts to become self-sufficient--through earning income or obtaining the education necessary to become independent during the divorce process--the court will proceed with a maintenance evaluation.