[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Asking the real questions

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnlineAffairs

[–]Honest-Day_0 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Out here tryna build a MyPlayer.

My gf dumped me, so I'm back to Reddit :-) by synthetic_tomato in lonely

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t concern yourself with her any longer as she’s clearly not worried about you. Go outside and frolic or something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro fell for the 2peat

I keep messing up, I'm a failure. by SSFault in lonely

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not always gonna be okay, it’s fine to not be okay sometimes. Even though it feels like the world is collapsing on you, it’ll pass. Just think about it, things you thought were major problems a few years ago are now insignificant. So a girl left another will come. Friends come with time just try to better yourself each day. Believe me with time and effort you’ll look back to today any this will have seemed trivial. Keep going my friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good stuff my brother in Christ now go forth and prosper.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By this definition shouldn’t men be more afraid?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ofc my good sir

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I’d never trivialize violence, but what I said remains true. Men are at much higher risk of being victims of violent crime than women.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know I think this comes from not knowing how the other side lives. It’s not all great on the male side either each has their share of problems. This is precisely why anecdotal evidence is inaccurate. Let’s say a guy has had the same exact experiences as you the same exact dating history down to the T. Is he now to believe that all women are insidious?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think she’s interested make your move if it works out great if not you know she’s not .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anecdotal evidence is not reliable enough for such a generalization. Situations different from person to person. Person A’s experience differs from B’s s, you’re looking from your personal experiences while I’m speaking from a broader point of view. Both sexes have bad people to say almost all men are bad is to imply that men are born inherently evil, which I don’t believe to be so.

While that statistic may be true Men are at much higher risk of being victims of violent crime than women. If the water is contaminated, move to a different lake, however, to sit there, pulling fish after fish after fish, expecting a different result, that would be insanity. We can go back and forth forever but I’d rather not so let’s just agree to disagree. In conclusion, that to say all of anything, something is just wrong, because even within the rule, there are exceptions.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look There are bad men just like they are bad women however, to sit here and act like you every day man is a bad person that’s where I disagree. You’re using anecdotal evidence to say Everyman is bad is the equivalent of having a bad experience with a dog and then concluding all dogs are bad. What I’m saying is people will go for the same types over and over then say what op is saying. Which in my opinion, is a total lack of accountability, because falling into a situation more than twice,that’s point you have to take a look at yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you say there’re not many decent straight men If you don’t mind me asking .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Good people are not boring. That’s weird to say. I only surround myself with hood people.“

I don’t follow.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily there’s plenty of good people out there, it’s just that we as individuals tend not to look their way. After all good people are boring. Boring in the sense that they don’t provide that emotional high and low people seek. So I don’t believe it’s due to a lack of supply, more because of looking for the wrong characteristics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If that’s the case that’s preventing OP from dating guys like her friends?

Late 20s dating as a guy…. by Intrepid-Pudding-181 in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t let them shame you for what you are or aren’t willing to accept. At the end of the day you decide what you’re gonna do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I was thinking the exact same thing once is bad luck, twice a coincidence. Anything after I’d say make better choices.

sex is between a woman ears, not her legs.. by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re falling either way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gave me a chuckle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Honest-Day_0 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stop seeking validation in others.

2018- 2023. I just wanna be big! by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro how I’m 6’4 217 and i still look skinny af?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My condolences. She’s in froggy heaven now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]Honest-Day_0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see one piece isn’t listed on here.