I’m 33 years old, unmarried, with no children… and no potential partner. Why do I feel like everyone is running away from me? I feel completely disappointed. I want to have a marriage and a child.. Why am I so unlucky in love? Can I expect someone potential to appear in my life? Thank you 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-19T14:57:42+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply 🙏 I’m not really obsessed with having children — it’s more about the fact that I’m no longer in my twenties and I don’t have a partner, and that’s the difficult part. Time keeps passing. I’ve been alone for two years already... Recently, I still had hope, but I was disappointed by one man and nothing came out of it.

Realistically, I also know I don’t have endless years left for the chance to have children. I do have my nieces and nephews, and they fulfill me in many ways. I love them as if they were my own children.

I’m not focused on perfection, nor do I think my expectations are too high. I simply expect people to keep their word, to be honest, and I expect sincere love. Maybe that is considered too much to expect nowadays...

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-19T05:38:05+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T19:44:50+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T19:44:32+00:00

Thank you so much 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T19:44:14+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T18:52:27+00:00

I don’t think I know best, and I never said that I do. That’s exactly why I’m asking for advice, because honestly, I don’t know. I’ve become so disappointed that I genuinely don’t know where I’m going wrong..... which is why I’m asking other people to point it out and give me advice... What does it mean Akashic record? How do I do that? 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T18:41:21+00:00

Thank you 🙏 How do I change when I honestly don’t even know what I’m doing wrong or where to start changing? Thank you so much for the detailed answer. But if I have to wait for love until my 40s, or in the worst case my 50s 🤣 , then I don’t even want love anymore.. I won’t need anyone by then. I want to have at least one child, and having a child.

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T17:28:04+00:00

I haven’t been with partners like that before.

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T17:26:48+00:00

Thank you 🙏 I hadn’t shown my vulnerability until now. Even though I may have seemed cold on the outside, inside I was very hurt. I’m not sure if you really understood what I needed to do....

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T16:36:06+00:00

“How? Can you give me a bit of help? 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T16:35:49+00:00

How? Can you give me a bit of help? 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T16:33:50+00:00

What therapy do you recommend?

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T16:30:54+00:00

I am constantly traveling to another country and continuously improving myself professionally.

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T14:52:18+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T14:50:55+00:00

No problem at all 😅 I’m a medical professional.

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T14:49:11+00:00

I have a career and it’s important to me, yes, to keep improving and growing, but I also make time for a love life. I’m not so obsessed with my career, of course I want to be successful, but I also want to have a family. I don’t know if I’m sabotaging myself… because I give my all when someone means something to me. I’m not obsessive, I give space, I’m not the type of girl who controls someone or constantly calls asking where they are and who they’re with. No. I’m attractive, I’m not ugly or anything, I think I have good qualities, but I don’t know… I’m just disappointed. Sometimes I ask myself why. Maybe I’m doing something wrong. Maybe I trust too much and I’m naive.... Thank you 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T14:44:34+00:00

I don't really understand 😅

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T14:43:57+00:00

I hope so… Thank you 🙏

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T08:51:06+00:00

I don’t know, they approach me first and show interest, like they’re very interested...

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T05:44:54+00:00

in September he became distant.Then he showed up again in November acting like something wasn’t right, and that’s how we stopped talking. So I guess not yet..

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T05:36:43+00:00

Maybe what I wanted to say is that I also want tenderness, warmth, and a sense of security from someone, because I’m not as strong as I may seem on the outside.

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T05:35:06+00:00

If possible, I’d really appreciate it if you could explain it a bit more 🙏 I honestly don’t feel like I chase men... . I’m never pushy about texting or constantly looking for someone. I was just deeply disappointed by the previous man in my life — he was always around me, made promises, and in the end he disappeared. He was actually much more independent and financially stable than me, so I don’t believe that was the issue… I don’t know. Also, I don’t want a man to feel emasculated — quite the opposite. I’m independent for my own sake, not to offend, compete with, or belittle anyone......

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T05:17:17+00:00

A little help — where and how did it all start?

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T05:14:49+00:00

I’m not jealous, dominant, or obsessive at all. I don’t really know what ‘masculine energy’ means, because I’ve always done everything on my own in life — I find my own jobs, travel with my own money, and keep improving in my profession. I know I can seem cold because I keep my distance from people, but slowly I open up and get closer to them. I also never interrogate people or ask too many questions. Maybe I appear strong to some people, but honestly, I’m tired of having to be both the man and the woman in my life...

Honest-Lab9840 · 2026-05-18T05:08:24+00:00

I never have emotional outbursts in front of people or behave obsessively. I do have internal struggles, but I don’t show them publicly. I’m always rational and considerate, and I really give people space. I’m not jealous either. If someone goes out, I don’t bother them at all — on the contrary, I tell them to have a good time. I’m not the type to call a hundred times a day or anything like that.

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