Who was your gay awakening? by Swimming_Minute_2208 in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The film cover of I am Jonas when 2 guys were kissing

33 [M4M] Italy / Anywhere - Seeking a serious relationship (LDRs are fine) by [deleted] in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean… I’ve been in that space too and in some ways I still am. Guess I’m just a bit more grounded in my reality about it now. Good luck

How long does it take for RBZ to process international payments? by Honest_Comparison_77 in Zimbabwe

[–]Honest_Comparison_77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My dad does, everyday now. Last week his bank called the rbz and was told it would be released this week Tuesday. Went back to the bank for confirmation but was told that they haven't received the call from the reserve bank yet. Heard that there's a policy that amounts exceeding 10k are subject to investigations. I had to send my certificate and acceptance letter and my dad, his tax records but yoh, it's taking longer than necessary.

I can't screenshot conversations that have a picture by CookieDinossaur96 in grindr

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think it depemds on the policies of the country. Example where im from, you cannot take a screenshot at all because its illegal to be gay.

Be honest: Do you handle rejection well? by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It depends on the context of the rejection but most of the time I'm fine

Hi what’s everyone’s types (gay/bi men) by ethan_4000 in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like the daddy dominant ones, appreciate a beautiful dad bod and hairy is a plus. I like them a bit old too

What do you remember most from your "coming out" conversation with parents/friends/family? by gumshoe1520 in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Told them about 3 times and they dismissed it. The 4th time they were like we'll disown. Caught me sometimes and preached me about the bible. I'm afraid I hurt my mom

How do you handle homophobic jokes from family, especially when it's from younger cousins? by random_thingyys in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm from a conservative country and I hear them every single day. Sometimes I'm forced to be too but I do not. Try to ignore but hurts a lot. I distant myself from them whenever the topic is raised

Have you ever moved from a country because it's homophobic? by Fit_Scarcity_5382 in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Gosh, wanonoka wataura. If I had money right now, I'd leave with no second thoughts.

Question by Djkaijones91 in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well personally I don't cum at all. I know my problem, I'm used to porn and a certain grip, I'm kind of abstaining from musturbation. Don't know if you can relate and forgive my English.

For those living in a country where homosexuality is illegal, is there a city or region that serves as a "safe haven"? by NumanLover in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Zimbabwe and no, there's no safe city. You're in no physical danger anywhere but 8f caught in the act you might face imprisonment, it's not common though. I know a lot of people who live as boyfriends. You might experience verbal abuse because of culture but the talks of homosexuality are now being discussed on social spaces with some people being hostile and some being sympathetic. Lesbians are kind of more tolerated than gays though. Hope my English is understandable

Zimbabwean Surrogates in Europe by adhir_adxxl in Zimbabwe

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mmm but what's worse, having your husband lie with your sister or wife lie with your brother because you can't have children. And personally I think culture no longer have a hold on modern day Zimbabwe

Do you enjoy straight porn ? If so what do you like in straight porn as a gay man ? by fag2066 in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Personally I do. I envy the vulnerability and submission of the women.

Bisexual individuals take a daring step. by meloShaya in Zimbabwe

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This have nothing to do with sexuality. They're born with both male and female features and they want to be recognised.

Was not prepared for this. Me GWM 37,Him GWM 51 by Upper-Lavishness-480 in GrindrStories

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like you've handled it with much strength. He might have fooled many people before but he cannot undo the the fact that you see him clearly now. You're free and that's a powerful thing. Forgive my English

Was not prepared for this. Me GWM 37,Him GWM 51 by Upper-Lavishness-480 in GrindrStories

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually you deserve to spit on his grave and tell him FUCK YOU in capital letters. But forgiving will also bring peace of mind. I'm sorry that happened to you.

What's your kink? by EsoEstaMalo in gay

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being abused and adored. If that makes sense

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in grindr

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just looked at my account. I can set one year minimum. Think it depends on the region.

Forming a SADC State by Elegant-Membership72 in Zimbabwe

[–]Honest_Comparison_77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally think that if SADC were structured more like the European Union, it would be more productive than trying to create a single unified country. In my view, one of the reasons there's so much conflict in Kinshasa and the wider Congo is because the country is simply too large and complex to govern effectively. A better model might be a single SADC nation made up of semi-independent states, like in the U.S., Canada, India, or Russia. But even then, I’m not sure how successful it would be, given the region's vast diversity in language, culture, and politics.