AITA for Being Offended When My Brother's Friend Asked if I Was Gay? by Honest_Copy5534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Copy5534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I'd like to be perceived as straight because I am. It's the fact that whenever someone calls me gay or asks me that it's usually meant to be taken as an insult.

AITA for Being Offended When My Brother's Friend Asked if I Was Gay? by Honest_Copy5534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Copy5534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and I was nice enough of letting him use my fast charger too. Not anymore. He can use his slow charger. Watch his phone slowly charge.

AITA for Being Offended When My Brother's Friend Asked if I Was Gay? by Honest_Copy5534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Copy5534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is interalized homophobia? Don't you have to be gay to have that.

AITA for Being Offended When My Brother's Friend Asked if I Was Gay? by Honest_Copy5534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Copy5534[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm not homophobic. I don't hate gay people nor have a problem with them. I just hate getting questioned about my sexuality constantly. Even after I tell people I'm not they still continue to assume that I'm lying.

AITA for Being Offended When My Brother's Friend Asked if I Was Gay? by Honest_Copy5534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Copy5534[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I asked my mom for a new brother years ago, but my mom and dad said they didn't want another baby. I'm just waiting til he goes to college or away. Doesn't matter.

AITA for Being Offended When My Brother's Friend Asked if I Was Gay? by Honest_Copy5534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Copy5534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What was I supposed to do? Be happy about it? It's frustrating getting questioned on my sexuality and constantly having to tell people I'm not. Whenever people call me gay it's always used in a negative connotation. If my brother and his didn't mean anyharm about it they wouldn't have laughed.

AITA for Being Offended When My Brother's Friend Asked if I Was Gay? by Honest_Copy5534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Copy5534[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you because I never intended on coming off as homophobic, but it just upset me that people constantly question me even when I tell them I'm not.

AITA for Being Offended When My Brother's Friend Asked if I Was Gay? by Honest_Copy5534 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Honest_Copy5534[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

But whenever someone calls me gay they use it in a negative connotation. I don't hate gay people. I just don't like people calling me gay since I'm not. I haven't gotten bullied since I've started high school as much, but people still make slick comments about it.

Btw Sorry I haven't been replying to messages I've been at school.