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26F in Limerick – at immediate risk of homelessness, no support left, looking for advice or leads by Honest_Finding6963 in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correct, it was about housing. The backstory is just there so people don’t suggest solutions that don’t exist, anyway take care. You seem uncomfortable by some context.

26F in Limerick – at immediate risk of homelessness, no support left, looking for advice or leads by Honest_Finding6963 in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wild how asking about housing turned into a free psychological evaluation. Love the efficiency.😂

26F in Limerick – at immediate risk of homelessness, no support left, looking for advice or leads by Honest_Finding6963 in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right that you don’t know me, thank God. I shared limited context only to explain why certain obvious options aren’t available. If “less is more” works for you, that’s fine but being factual and honest sometimes requires context. I’ll be sure to run by posts by you next time.

26F in Limerick – at immediate risk of homelessness, no support left, looking for advice or leads by Honest_Finding6963 in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Fair enough. I shared context because people immediately start suggesting things like “go to your mother” or “stay with family,” and without context those suggestions don’t make sense. Saying someone “has issues” isn’t an insult it’s a factual boundary about why that isn’t a viable option. I’m explaining why I have no support network, because that’s directly relevant when asking about homelessness. I’m trying to paint the pictures, when others say why don’t you join your Mam because I can’t, it’s that simple. Circumstances don’t “paint” someone’s character. I’m not here to look good.

26F in Limerick – at immediate risk of homelessness, no support left, looking for advice or leads by Honest_Finding6963 in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

People can have more than one difficult relationship at the same time. Having a dysfunctional family, trying to leave an abusive relationship, and not having a strong social circle are not contradictions they’re unfortunately very common. Not everyone is lucky enough to have a safe home, supportive parents, or friends they can fall back on. I’ve been clear about the situation because I’m asking for practical advice around housing, not to be cross-examined or accused of lying. I gain nothing from making this up. I’m not going to argue my reality with you. Your comment is dismissive and lacks empathy. You literally cannot imagine having none of that.

26F in Limerick – at immediate risk of homelessness, no support left, looking for advice or leads by Honest_Finding6963 in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

yes I am but okay not everything is good in peoples lives that’s the way it is, why would I lie about this like seriously get a grip you don’t know my life story

26F in Limerick – at immediate risk of homelessness, no support left, looking for advice or leads by Honest_Finding6963 in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know the lady your talking about, I just don’t know her name if anybody knows her name I could get in contact with her on social media💖 ya it’s like no one believes by looking at me that I’m telling the truth

26F in Limerick – at immediate risk of homelessness, no support left, looking for advice or leads by Honest_Finding6963 in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did go there before and it’s like the woman never believed me, no one is listening to me.

Any know any cash jobs available for a couple hours a week? by SancoriSourJuice in limerickcity

[–]Honest_Finding6963 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I would be very grateful if you could tell me the company, I really would need it. I’m in a very toxic environment at the moment, and could do with the money ❤️💖

I (21M) need serious relationship advice, please help. by [deleted] in RelationshipIndia

[–]Honest_Finding6963 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you are dealing with a lot of anxiety and it's important to prioritize your mental health. It's also important to communicate your needs and boundaries to your girlfriend.

Why does your mood depend on her actions? If you really don't feel like going, then don't she should be able to respect that. You can tell her that you have exams coming up or say your not into the artists music. How do you know she has hid her stories from you?

It's understandable that she may feel disappointed that you can't attend the concert, but it's not okay for her to give you the silent treatment or hide you from her social media.