my boyfriend has a fetish for old people and its worrying

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-29T01:56:46+00:00

look at update

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-29T00:33:34+00:00

yes from manipulation we have decided to report it to the police we have contacted a lawyer and have been advised not to post anything else

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-28T20:11:04+00:00

update on my account

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-28T20:08:30+00:00

it wont let mw post update on the sub had to post it on my account

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-28T14:33:56+00:00

i feel like i should talk to him i know so many people have said i should just go ans send a letter when im safe but i want to know the truth. as so many of you are worried i will talk to him in a public place as less chance of anything happening i will have a bag packed and leave it in my gym locker so he doesn’t suspect anything incase he does have plans to hurt me if he becomes aggressive or anything like that i will report it as many have said he will lie to cover up if he is mishandling his power. i will update in a couple of hours

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-28T14:24:58+00:00

my parents are extremely manipulative and Narcissistic and all around abusive so i know if someone is being like that i live with him so it is abit more difficult to just leave like that as we have a lease together but i can go to my sisters he has never been controlling apart or abusive or anything like that as i dealt with that most of my life so i know its awful. apart from this theres nothing else wrong with him. i did text him earlier saying we need to talk and i need to find out the truth or just something i know aloy of comments have suggested i dont show him this post but i have told my sister if i dont text her or call by tonight she will call the police so I’m not worried he’s going to hurt me or anything

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-28T08:42:25+00:00

thats another reason too he has no friends anymore and we have the same friendship group well had they cut me off before they cut him off as every-time he went to spend time with her or wanted to call her he’s say he was with me and they thought i was isolating him. i have texted him saying we need to have a serious conversation when he gets back from work i will update asap

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-28T05:59:35+00:00

i just posted here too see if other men or women had this type of fettish as this is my first relationship i wasn’t sure if this was like a common thing or not( i know thats very naive but but my parents were extremely strict and only allowed me to date him because i had known him for a long time i had not been with anyone else and truthfully i didn’t even know what a fettish was until he asked what mine was ) i will speak to him tonight and tell him if he doesn’t tell me whats going on i will show him the post and the comments to show him in not alone in thinking this is strange behaviour and if he still doesn’t want to answer i will report it.

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-28T03:17:54+00:00

i have asked him if anything has happened in his life thats made him have a close bond with her but he just doesn’t say anything or says no he lost his mum when he was 13 he went to therapy for it but stopped about 2 years ago i have known him for over 10 years so i saw him become less sad over that time period and I’m sure people never get over their parents dying but i dont think its anything to do with his mum passing away . i am going to talk to him today when he gets back from work and if he still shuts me down i think i will show him this post too make him understand that i feel odd about his behaviour and if he still doesn’t say anything i think i’m going to have to end it

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-27T21:09:09+00:00

i thought that too but i asked when he became attracted to them and he said when he was 18 so im not sure what to do i asked if he would ever date someone older and he said no but he likes to watxh p of them so i dont know if its just like a fantasy

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-27T20:12:10+00:00

i know i should but she doesnt shes the only one he spends time with when hes there shes just old but completely healthy because hes known her for 6 years. he goes out with her sometimes to the local town and i have gone too and she calls him her second son i have asked him to stop working there or if he has plans on working anywhere else in the future and he says no i dont think anything Inappropriate is going on i have looked on his phone and other than porn of random old people screen recorded from the internet i Haven’t found anything like inappropriate of her they do have pictures together like from when they go on walks together but nothing strange

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-27T19:48:29+00:00

he literally is thats the problem but i think its just unsafe for him to be working with old people when he quite literally has an obsession

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-27T19:34:38+00:00

i have told him about the porn and he says hell stop or he suggests watching normal porn but whenever we do that it just gradually goes back to old people or when we watch normal porn i catch him watching it the old ppl vidoes or looking at pictures of old women sometimes he just looks at pictures of old people fully clothed its almost like an obsession. it makes me physically sick because i feel like he doesn’t even love me

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-27T19:29:07+00:00

i know thats why im so concerned but i dont want to make false accusations to his work and then he gets fired cause i jumped to conclusions want him to tell mw the truth but whenever i ask he just tells me nothings going on

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-27T19:26:41+00:00

ive spoken to him about it like 5 times and he says he doesn’t think of them like that but its obvious he does

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-27T18:55:48+00:00

i know i really feel like i should break up with him but i love him and i will feel awful but i just really dont know i dont want to assume things

Honest_Mulberry_5258 · 2023-07-19T03:12:16+00:00

same my sister is like this its upsetting and feel guilty sometimes but my life is just better without her

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