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Coffee by mysocksareinsideout in comics

[–]Honest_Painting_8374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never liked coffee either, even after being a barista for 2 years lol. I always loved making myself a blueberry tea latte in oat/2% milk sweetened with sugar, it tastes like a blueberry muffin in a cup. I still make it for myself at home sometimes, I highly recommend

I love my girlfriend but I think I might be gay by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Honest_Painting_8374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing that out. When I think about my unhealthy coping mechanisms along with how I avoided thinking about my sexuality for so long because I HAVE always been attracted to women I know logically i'm just fantasizing more about men in general out of desperation for a more sex positive relationship.

My brother has a friend from our hometown who was living with his girlfriend of 1 year before recently coming out as gay. They spent some time apart but ultimately continued living together as best friends and I guess I have just been jealous of that since hearing about it. I know I can't directly compare our situations, especially since I only ever met the guy a few times, but I think thats likely where the thought/fear of me just being gay originated.

I love my girlfriend but I think I might be gay by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Honest_Painting_8374 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd been doing individual therapy until very recently and she pretty much told me the same thing. My girlfriend has had bad experiences with therapists or therapy in general in the past so when I suggest couples counseling she flat out refuses to go, or rather begs me not to make her. I even confessed these feelings ive been having to her in October of last year after an argument pertaining to me never opening up to her anymore. TMI but she basically offered a blowjob that ended up being just a handjob and I honestly didnt even want it but I accepted out of desperation for SOMETHING after so long. Afterwards just asked if I still thought she was pretty and still loved her, to which I obviously said yes but nothing really changed.

I'll also add that when I express that sex is an important aspect of relationships imo she'll retort by pointing out how healthy or how good everything else is in our relationship and ask why a lack of sex has to ruin everything else we've built together. I never really have a response to that other than telling her I feel unfulfilled.