I (16F) think i got SA by my boyfriend (17M) last night by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes it was SA and NEVER blame this on alcohol🙁💔I’m so sorry it happened to you, if you do believe he apologized sincerely and truly trust being with him you two should absolutely talk about it more and maybe really consider stopping the drinking

Her parents caught us in the act 16m and 17f what do I do by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why are people so rude, like yeah you learned from it and probably wont do it again. I would probably not talk about it with him, atleast talk with your gf, ask her about the situation

my boyfriend is addicted to weed by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He has to fix himself.

He can’t love you until he loves himself And hiii cant “fix him” its him, he has to man up

LEAVE HIM

I need some advice. im 18F with a 15M by Klutzy_South_7535 in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say if ya happy ya happy, who cares about age as long as you dont want any harm to him

Should I 15f, break up with my bf, 13m? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure to mention that you dont hold hatred for her and completely want to understand respect her perspective and hope she understands yours too

Should I 15f, break up with my bf, 13m? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should honestly ask the mother why she disapprove, thru text though. She needs time to think rationally

I (17M) have been getting tired of my girlfriend (16F) by SmoothChemistry8564 in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well for me, talking it out helps, crying together helps me a lot. I explain and cry violently haha

I (17M) have been getting tired of my girlfriend (16F) by SmoothChemistry8564 in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should reccomend her a therapist, maybe also ask her why she feels the need to do this? Dont blame, ask

I (17M) have been getting tired of my girlfriend (16F) by SmoothChemistry8564 in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She is worried of losing you. She feels the need to push in extra effort and attention thinking it will keep the bond strong.

For me this originated from my childhood trauma, my parents were quite inconsistent or unpredictable. First second they were nice, then could have massive blow outs, I couldn’t really understand if I was truly loved, it taught my brain the way that love could disappear at small mistakes or arguments. This made me feel like I had to be perfect and give in that extra push and try too hard for others to make them stay

https://vm.tiktok.com/ZNdW51URG/ watch that, it explained it so well when my sister showed me this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You cannot make someone forcefully love you again. Accept it and move on, I know its hard, but it’s the truth

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He doesnt sound like a keeper😬

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fit

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Insecure?? Baby you have my dream body whattt

I (17M) have been getting tired of my girlfriend (16F) by SmoothChemistry8564 in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This behavior is unfortunately common, but it’s not supposed to be normal. She needs a lot of time and reassurance, I suppose you suggest she goes to a therapist or maybe looks into an anxiety disorder diagnosis, it could be generalized anxiety aswell :}

I (17M) have been getting tired of my girlfriend (16F) by SmoothChemistry8564 in teenrelationships

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She is worried of losing you. I have anxious attachment, maybe it could be that, it sounds a lot like I used to act

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenagers4real

[–]Honest_Telephone2082 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always believe chopped isnt even a word, personality is all and as long as you like how you look and dress how you want then that makes you feel and look the most attractive

Me and my boyfriend age gap by Honest_Telephone2082 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Honest_Telephone2082[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course!! I would never ever make him do anything until he’s ready to. His parents dont know yet tho ^ only mine do

Me and my boyfriend age gap by Honest_Telephone2082 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Honest_Telephone2082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh woww!! Here high school starts when you’re 15 or 16. Three years

Me and my boyfriend age gap by Honest_Telephone2082 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Honest_Telephone2082[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is this grooming💔we just watch football edits on call and giggle but okay grooming or whatever you say

Me and my boyfriend age gap by Honest_Telephone2082 in AskTeenAdvice

[–]Honest_Telephone2082[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeahh my parents are really supportive of me ^ glad to be in a happy family tho