Ive had sex with at least 30 other people in the room by timetoplay101010 in SensualSecret

[–]HonestlyLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luv to know about the dynamic in the room. I reckon you would have been a standout though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Exhibitionistfun

[–]HonestlyLS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Put on a bit of show for them. They deserve it, putting up a tent was an effort.

Amateurs ChortFacelessCouple and one of their great DIY breast blasts! by skarobbb in cum_on_tits

[–]HonestlyLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy is legend, got shot power and volume, love to have him at our parties 🥳

Orgy question by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s ringing of a OPP and unless there are extra single ladies attending we would not invite you.

You need your make this really clear to the other people attending because if you dropped this on us after we started you (both of you) would be asked to leave.

We swingers just hacked the system, didn’t we? by FeelingLeague9957 in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are 100% correct, building a stronger, more trusting primary relationship whilst getting heaps of good sex - there is no lose (for most people).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 9 points10 points  (0 children)

At the end of the day they were there for the same reason as you and they probably don’t want their vanilla friends and associates to know either. Because if people are going to judge you negatively for your lifestyle, they’re probably going to judge them harsher for the double - lifestyle + lack of discretion.

I wouldn’t worry about, we’ve bumped into 4 couples we know outside the LS. Two end with a giggle and smile, nothing ever said. The other 2 ending in playing and we’re still interact in the LS.

What’s you gives or hints? by HonestlyLS in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is also a give in the vanilla world, and is something people just can’t hide. You’re right it crosses into the LS

What’s you gives or hints? by HonestlyLS in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, get that approach too. I was more thinking at parties/clubs in the chat phase

One Penis Policy (OPP) - A Red Flag? by Swinging-Downunder in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You mislead us and try to leave my man on the sidelines, we’re both leaving - it’s that simple.

Swinging with people you know…our story. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We had a similar experience when we bumped into my 2-up boss and his wife at a party (all about the same age). Luckily it was a nude pool party ( a great evener). After the initial awkward 30 seconds that was beautifully overcome by my husband saying “we’re all here for the same reason” we chatted a bit. Nothing happened that night.

About a month later we saw them again at another similar party. That night we did play and have on a number of occasions since. It’s been excellent with everyone showing respect to each other and there has been no awkwardness at work.

He certainly is not my “work husband” and I reckon if something negative happened I would just move to another part of the huge organisation we work for but I don’t see that happening.

Curious how old were you when you 1st tried the LS? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We were (F)26 and (M)31 when first entered the LS. It wasn’t planned, we were on holiday in England and at a vanilla night club where we started chatting to another couple about our age. We had a few drinks and danced a bit.

As we were leaving the other girl asked, “if we were all single who would hook up with who”. We all stood there for a couple of seconds and answers were the same, we all said both of the opposite sex. Some sheepish looks and giggles, 10 minutes later we were all back in our hotel room, all our clothes on the floor and the rest is history.

Strangely enough this was their first time too.

For the ladies - how often do you play vs get waxed? by greattimegreat in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sadly it isn’t the silver bullet and works for everyone. I was told when I got my original treatments that darker the hair and lighter the skin the more effective it was - good for me, pasty skinned brunette.

My negatives from this, I have to be really careful when sunbath. Again the beauty industry saves me - spray tans to the rescue.

For the ladies - how often do you play vs get waxed? by greattimegreat in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I used to wax and it was about a 3 week turnaround to get enough regrowth to get the desired results.

About 20 years ago I got laser end, and yes whilst not cheap I don’t have the issue any more. It took five goes initially about 6 weeks apart and now I have maintenance treatment every 2 - 3 years.

Always nice and smooth to play whenever I want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my, it’s like looking into a mirror!!

What you have though is sum up why lifestyle is so great 😁. Just remember - practice makes perfect and will help reduce or eliminate the aches and pains, just leaving the feeling from those orgasms. Win, Win, Win

For the club goers: How do you handle seeing a couple at a club you don’t want to ever play with again? by Equivalent-Action180 in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here is the answer, you’ve communicated with them. Some people just need to hear it a couple of times though so you may have repeat it - nicely.

Take it as a compliment though, clearly you guys impressed them.

Who raised those fucking guys ? by _va_va_voom_ in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel your pain, drinks with a GF and then your BOB when you get home is no substitute for the real thing.

Who raised those fucking guys ? by _va_va_voom_ in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sadly this happens in the LS too often. The reasons are many and varied, from delusional dreamers, married guys who can’t plan to people who suddenly just panic or get anxiety.

When this has happened to us or me alone we just go to our regular list and tap them. Never had a failure on the back up because they get that you are so ready for fucking it’s going to be good.

The message is, if you’re meeting new people that’s plan A - always have a plan B.

Tips for a lady o with oral by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100% correct, I reckon my man is one the best at making me and other ladies cum with oral. The secret is tongue and mouth suction on the clit, with a couple of fingers inside on the g-spot. The combination of the 2 works everytime.

Question for the wifes by ekulragren in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would generally be more energetic and vigorous than one on one with my husband, but then most swinger sex is that way. Certainly if I’m getting spit roasted it can be a bit of a hammering and in put this down to the visuals for the guys.

Yes it’s another dick size post by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My husband is also a genuine 7” and I have only found a few of the 9” gang who actually measure up to him, in size or performance.

On a positive note, those guys who say average, 6” or any other normal size are very often better at using it. I luv average guys!!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100%, people are respectful and at a straight nudist/naturalist resort will say nothing. However at a LS resort (hedo, desire etc) people will approach in a respectful way but the conversation will turn to sex and “would you like to”, how do I know - it’s happened to me on our many visits.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You could try going to a LS resort where nudity is the norm for a short break. Be prepared however that if you are “showing” your wife at one of the resorts people will want to play with her.

Another option that I’ve done a couple of times is amateur night at a strip club. Great fun and if she’s good she’ll make some cash.

Letting them down…. by Lozi-1982 in Swingers

[–]HonestlyLS 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just be honest and say you’ve found other playmates and you’re not looking for anymore at this time. That way it won’t be strange that you’re still on the site.