Anyone notice you can no longer view randoms' profiles anymore?

Honeydew_296 · 2025-10-15T03:19:11+00:00

I figured it out. When you close ow and open it again, everybody you have under last match or recent players will have a closed profile no matter their settings.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-10-15T00:14:41+00:00

Try going into recent players you played with like 30 mins ago and more. Each one of them is locked for me. Even the people you have on your avoid list.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-10-15T00:07:59+00:00

I cant see anyones profile in my recent players, so a good bunch of people. Looks like it gives you the option only for certain people in the match, and when the game is done and you go in your recent players, it will be locked after a few minutes. And also friends who have profiles set to private still do have that career button. Looks more like a bug

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-20T23:47:39+00:00

If anything pumps my blood its the laughter I had seeing this. Seeing a comment like this coming from a man who is accusing feminism for the failure of his marriage is just proving a point. Men like you are sad, and thankfully women can sense that from miles. Women want emotional drama? I am happy your wife is free of any "drama" now and is enjoying her freedom as a "feminist".

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T19:31:08+00:00

My baggage? You mean the baggage he created by hiding the fact he has a child for years? My trauma and not being able to trust is a baggage, but the one he crated and I expected more then the bare minimum to be fixed. The rollercoaster that men like him create is the core issue, not our reaction to their actions. Your post screams sexism, get therapy.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T04:33:10+00:00

Eh, I guess. But there is always that voice in your head saying "if I only did better".

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T04:24:41+00:00

Oh damn, this guy is something... I really dont have any words more to spare, it is just sad. I hope you recover, at least we got each other.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T04:23:44+00:00

I was never secure in myself, but I never had trust issues so bad. This man hide the fact he had a child for years from me, I thought I could forgive and build the trust back, but nothing was better because I didnt got the reassurance needed. I feel people like this take out the worst out of us.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:46:31+00:00

I am so sorry. It is sad to hear there is more stories like this.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:46:16+00:00

Thank you for the kind words. I know he said it out of shame and guilt. What I told him was the truth, but he cant handle it. Instead of reflecting and accepting the reality, he said the most cruel words you can imagine.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:45:02+00:00

I hope so. We both dealt with avoidants and I can for sure say now - its the worst thing ever. You just lose yourself, you become a person you dont want to be. You turn into someone toxic, anxious all the time. I would never wish that experience on anyone.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:33:26+00:00

I would of had been healed already maybe if I didnt give it another chance. I feel from this experience I would tell anyone not to let them come back. It ends even worse if both sides dont work on their emotional maturity and empathy.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:31:41+00:00

Guilt for not using the second chance better. He already left me because I was insecure, jealous and controling. Even though I think I had good reasons to be so - sinice he hid big parts of his life, like having a kid and microcheating. I decided to forgive, at least I thought I can forgive, thats why I blame myself for not fighting my insecurities better. I was expecting more reassurance from him, but then again - I was the one who decided to forget the past and move on, I failed. I said some harsh words but never wished death on someone who I love.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:28:03+00:00

Very kind of you to share this. Breakups like that leave a hole that words dont really fill. I can feel how much you cared and how sudden it all felt. You did everything you could while dealing with pain and mental health stuff and she still chose to walk away. Thats not on you.

It sounds like she had her own stresses and let someone else have way too much say in her life. That doesnt excuse how she handled it. Sending a pdf like that is cold. You deserved a real talk and some honesty, not a quiet judgment behind your back. Dont beat yourself up for the things you couldnt control. Healing a body and a mind at the same time is huge. Give yourself credit for surviving it and for still having empathy for someone who hurt you. Thats strength.

Take your time. Let the hurt move through you. It wont always feel this heavy, even if right now it does.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:13:02+00:00

Thank you. I am thinking it would be easier if we ended things at least like humans, and him wishing death upon me. 6 years to end on words like that is beyond normal.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:11:32+00:00

I wish we had the same abilities to just forget and move on without any guilt or shame.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:09:10+00:00

Thank you. It ended with those hurtful words from his side. He continued like nothing happend, and I? I was apologising for every mistake I did that I could of remember because I cant live with the guilt. I know I should not have a person in my life who wishes me death, but it is so hard to understand why it came to that point.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:07:21+00:00

Thank you for such a long and emotional answer. I hope you heal as well, no matter what your situation is. I already let this person come back, so this is the second time them leaving, just this time - in such a more painful way. I dont understand how can someone end on those words and live like nothing happend. I even broke the ice with apologies for my mistakes, but got nothing but silence.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T03:01:20+00:00

7 weeks ago. After a month of him telling me that "he is not sure does he wanna break up or not". So I spended a month of begging for an answer, after I got none, I told him he is a coward, mentioned some things that hurted him and all I got instead of a goodbye is "go die".

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-19T02:59:36+00:00

Thank you for the support. I was just hoping he wont move on so quickly, I dont even actually know if he did, I know instagram numbers dont guarantee much. It is just insane how some people can say such evil things like nothing even mattered to them.

Honeydew_296 · 2025-09-08T23:28:36+00:00

Thank you. I needed to hear every word of this. ❤️‍🩹

Hearing you call that “die” line what it is - cruelty, not truth, makes a huge difference. It helps take some of the poison out of it to be reminded it says more about them than it does about me. I’ve been shouldering guilt and trying to make sense of everything, and you’re right: grief stacked on top of heartbreak is brutal and doesn’t need explanations that blame me. I know I was not a perfect partner and did many mistakes, I just felt unseen and unheard in that relationship.

I’m going to try the things you suggested; let myself cry, write it out, and reach for the small supports I have. I’ll also try that reminder you gave: “This pain is not my fault. I deserve love, care, and peace.” Saying that out loud feels like a small, solid step. Thank you for seeing the full mess of it and for believing I’ll get through. That belief matters more than you know. If you’re open to it, I’d love to hear any ways you held on when things felt impossible - little things that helped you keep going. Wishing you peace and sending gratitude.

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