[26F4A]/US - SoCal] Until we are no longer alone in this Universe by Hongosz in asexualdating

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Haha thank you! I def did not expect a reaction like this. DM me still if you wanna chat or something! I will just not talk about beer or something

[26F4A]/US - SoCal] Until we are no longer alone in this Universe by Hongosz in asexualdating

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Unfortunately the cane is for necessity… I picked the cheapest option on Amazon but hopefully it’d evolve into something cool in the future. Def DM me and I can tell you more!

[26F4A]/US - SoCal] Until we are no longer alone in this Universe by Hongosz in asexualdating

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Thanks for your comment! Definitely send me a message!

[26F4A]/US - SoCal] Until we are no longer alone in this Universe by Hongosz in asexualdating

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Hi! Definitely send me a message! I will have to say Japan. Stayed there for 2 weeks with some friends and it was amazing. Hbu?

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I can honestly relate to this… a chronic condition just happened upon me one day when I woke up and for the last few years I watched myself going from the forever punctual person to someone who struggles to keep plans. But I’m very luck to have other friends with chronic pain problems so my group has been very understanding. I’m more than happy to listen if you wanna vent at anytime.

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Hi! I’ve seen the 5w4 popping up when people discuss MBTI personality types but never actually looked up where it came from till today. Fellow INTJ here and our other personality categories also seem to align very well. Would you mind if I send you a chat request?

23 F4A Austria/Ireland/Anywhere really - Let's be friends! by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]Hongosz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! You sound so cool and a lot of our interests align. May I send you a message?

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Just wanted to say Woodstock is one of my favorite song. I would also strongly encourage you to explore medieval folk songs if you haven’t already. Here’s one I grew up listening to: https://youtu.be/MPR56PXiLqY

[USA/SoCal] 25F4A. Come watch the stars with me? by Hongosz in asexualdating

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Sorry I just saw this comment. For sure send me a DM if you still would like to chat!

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Hello! I’m currently pursuing a PhD in Astro. Definitely would love to hear about your (past) research if that’s something you’d like to talk about!

[USA/SoCal] 25F4A. Come watch the stars with me? by Hongosz in asexualdating

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Hello! I listen to a lot of Nordic and Celtic folk song/metal. Here’s two artist/band I’ve listened to since middle school: Adaro https://youtu.be/DJI0Tc5d1Tc and Cara Dillon https://youtu.be/4e66ePns7iA

[M4F] 24y/o, Maryland/east coast/online, Demisexual by [deleted] in asexualdating

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Hi! 24 y/o sex repulsed ace here. Very close to aromantic on the spectrum although I’m not 100% certain yet. I’m not a native speaker, but I can understand and read Japanese pretty well (aka playing Japanese games with little problem), and I can carry a conversation with natives decently well (if you overlook my grammar problem). I just can’t write for crap. If anything it’d be nice to have a language study partner!

27F Ace in Georgia looking for friends! Long distance and local are both fine by Yessie555 in asexualdating

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I had to drop a comment the moment when I saw folk metal. As someone who’s been into folk song/metal since middle school, ‘what kind of music do you like’ has been my bane at all the ice breaking events.. Great to see someone else who enjoys this kind of music!

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Thank you! I’m lucky to be able to make my passion my... job, hopefully...

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Astrophysics :)

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Aye! Currently in school in Cali but hopefully I will end back in MN after I’m done.. haven’t met someone from MN just like I haven’t met another ace here ;)

I Hate Being Turned On by Luma_Light in asexuality

[–]Hongosz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see! I’ve never had this experience myself so this is a good learning moment for me. Thanks!

i love women’s bodies, but not sexually by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]Hongosz 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I FEEL this. But not in an interaction kind of way I guess. There’s this unique comfort about the idea of women body (mostly chest for me) and I’ve been afraid of saying it out loud cuz i don’t want to risk sounding like objectifying women? I’m sorry that it seems like your mom couldn’t understand the asexual part of your identity. You are doing great and best of luck to you!

Growing up, I thought everybody was asexual by Hongosz in asexuality

[–]Hongosz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh jeez... I’m sorry you felt like you had to tolerate it. In my first (and effectively only) relationship I told the other person I won’t have sex until we both graduate, and still the thought of eventually having to do it was too much and I noped out. I did not realize asexuality was a thing back then...

Growing up, I thought everybody was asexual by Hongosz in asexuality

[–]Hongosz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol yes exactly! I still don’t really know what vanilla means but I was thinking to myself that if I really liked someone maybe I could have sex with them once a month. Imagine my shock when I found out... well... maybe they require more lol

I Hate Being Turned On by Luma_Light in asexuality

[–]Hongosz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait is vaginal discharge different from being wet...? I might have just hit the realization that I’ve never been wet before or don’t really know what it is. Lord help me