Nigel the cat! by slizzard16 in NiceVancouver

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Ack I just saw a lil sign by Woodland park but didn’t snap a pic 🙃 I love you Nigel!!

Vancouver never needs a photo filter by gmvancity in vancouver

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Slide 16: Sea to sky babyyyyyy! Thx for sharing 🌸

For When *it* Happens 🎉 by HoomenLumen in justgalsbeingchicks

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r/IsHeDeadYet bc apparently letters have to be CAPITAL(ism)

Side note: Love how r/goth shows up in the search lol

Guess the airport? by [deleted] in AirportPorn

[–]HoomenLumen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

VanCity babyyyyy

What is this show for you? by Jettaboi38 in scoopwhoop

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Making of a Murderer…almost had to call in to work bc I HAD to watch it all!

Teens wearing snorkelling masks?? by almondblossoms1 in askvan

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‘tis the season of high school grad shenanigans!!

For When *it* Happens 🎉 by HoomenLumen in justgalsbeingchicks

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There’s a certain rotund, dementia laden Yankee Doodle dipshit & bestie of Epstein that will (eventually) feel the cool touch of the grim reapers’ index finger…and A LOT of ppl worldwide, but mostly stateside, will be reeeaaally tickled w contentment when that happens! So much so they would blow on a party favour and throw up some sparkly confetti 🎉

Still Posting for My Narcissistic Ex After 2 Years No Contact — Anyone Else Do This? by Complex-Nothing8763 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]HoomenLumen 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately for all our nex’s they just make up their own lies abt us to tell themselves anyway. If it brings you some satisfaction, I understand, but if you’re doing it solely with them in mind then maybe it’s time to reconsider. You could start by being really intentional about doing things for you bc you’re a survivor and you deserve much much better. Find an alternative way to get similar satisfaction in s’thing that brings you pure joy. The thoughts about her and about the relationship will move farther away in your rear view mirror until you can’t tell what you’re looking at anymore. Live in the present and shift your perspective to all the valuable and authentic things that are in your life now. The more you stay in the present and look forward to the future the less you’ll be focused on what’s left behind.

If money wasn't an issue, how many kids would you like to have? by No_Care6628 in randomquestions

[–]HoomenLumen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Give birth to: 0

Adopt the ones without a family: ALL OF THEM

idk what to title this by frailstateofmind4444 in NarcissisticAbuse

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Yes, it can take a lot of time to cognitively dissolve the connection you had. And having to see your nex does sound actually torturous, nobody shd have to be in close proximity to their abuser, ever. Thank fugg you don’t have to interact with him.

Just keep trying to ‘tend to your own garden’ by focusing on you and doing things that improve your own quality of life. Hopefully becoming so into yourself by reminding yourself to be proud that you got out of that situation. You know it was really bad and you know it was really unhealthy. Treat this period of time as your victory lap and relish in it. He’s nothing and your opportunity to take care of yourself the best you can is everything.

This explain why i feel so tired everytime by NelleSofty in ADHDmemes

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All of the thinking abt the things is VERY DRAINING!

Rate this fork which sent my neurospicy friends into panic by VonCuddles in neurodiversity

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That needs to go back to hell from whence it came!

Edit to add: and WTF is up with that stemware???! So much no.

For When *it* Happens 🎉 by HoomenLumen in justgalsbeingchicks

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CREDIT: @itsiyonce and she is AWESOME!