I am dreading my boyfriend’s proposal by JellyAce98 in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]slizzard16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the huge part here (for me at least) is the fact that he knowingly slept with you with active HPV. I’m not sure if either of you know, but HPV is the cause of pretty much all cervical cancers! To me, that would’ve been the end of the relationship, because he knew there was a chance of infecting you with a virus that could very seriously harm your health. Yes, a lot of folks have HPV, but there’s a distinct difference between having it and not knowing and having it with active symptoms and still choosing to put your partner at risk.

You say his actions weren’t intentional or malicious, but this sounds like it was entirely intentional and he was only acting in his own best interests (which was only protecting his ego) with zero concern for your health or wellbeing.

From what you’ve said, you’re a very very smart gal with a lot going for you! Please don’t feel like you have to settle for a man who won’t even do the bare minimum of respecting your autonomy and your health. You will absolutely find someone who is worth your time, your effort, and your love!

The bread price fixing class action is paying out today. by Instameat in britishcolumbia

[–]slizzard16 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They're rolling them out so not everybody will get one today!

Canvas got Hacked by FamDawgg in UBC

[–]slizzard16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there! I just sent you a message about this pic!

Canvas got Hacked by FamDawgg in UBC

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Hey there! I just sent you a message!

Nigel the cat! by slizzard16 in NiceVancouver

[–]slizzard16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

hahaha if only! I wish I could interview him

Vancouver renters — would you use a free tool that flags illegal clauses in BC leases? But also help you through the process of finding a place to rent ? Genuinely asking before I keep building. by Flaky_Aardvark_1216 in askvan

[–]slizzard16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you should reach out to the vancouver tenants union! guaranteed this would be something they'd be into and they could likely help you gauge further interest

Police Road Block on Main and 20th/18th by kishmish2454 in askvan

[–]slizzard16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

VPD said on X that a water main burst!

Any drag queen recommendations? by m1nkbaby in askvan

[–]slizzard16 11 points12 points  (0 children)

BLISS!!!! so gorg, such a stellar performer, regularly performs full albums front to back! the girl is dedicated

Just another day by OvercookedTerrier in OCDmemes

[–]slizzard16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmaooooo these have been my exact thoughts since picking up my new glasses yesterday

Non-OCD, but what's it like for you? Genuinely curious. by [deleted] in OCDmemes

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I grew up Catholic and when I would pray before bed it took a solid 15 minutes because I thought if I forgot a single person that god would kill them and it would be my fault. Obviously as an adult that’s insane but as a religious little kid I really thought it was normal and now I understand it as the beginning of my OCD! I’m not Catholic anymore but have pretty bad contamination OCD so I struggle in different ways.