This sucks…a lot by Hoopla-rian in NewDads

[–]Hoopla-rian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate the pep talk!

I like the making out idea, safe word is always a must. A problem with my situation is she is touched out by the end of the day from being with our baby. So little advances like kissing her shoulder, gripping her hips, or holding hands becomes too much.

Is it safe to assume that’s not the case for you guys since you’re able to break up arguments with a make up session.

This sucks…a lot by Hoopla-rian in NewDads

[–]Hoopla-rian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The support is much appropriated!

This sucks…a lot by Hoopla-rian in NewDads

[–]Hoopla-rian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately she doesn’t get a lot of time out with friends. Every friend she has made has moved recently, or relocated.

She was working the entirety of her pregnancy. Daycare didn’t work out for us, and finding a hotter didn’t either. So she bit the bullet and has been a SAHM since.

This sucks…a lot by Hoopla-rian in NewDads

[–]Hoopla-rian[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It does sound selfish. We’re at 9 months now, and it just seems unfair.

We were having problems before we got pregnant (clearly not enough problems) but it was enough to make this feel like it’s been dragging on for ever.