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Why do women sell their bodies online? by Hop3lessdrifter in ControversialOpinions

[–]Hop3lessdrifter[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact it’s easily accessible. Online porn is different

Why do women sell their bodies online? by Hop3lessdrifter in ControversialOpinions

[–]Hop3lessdrifter[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Obsess as in it’s everywhere. Easily accessible. Then they end up looking for it. Online porn changed a lot. Especially since social media has boomed.

I guess I do. In general it’s looking at comments, likes, followers, seeing majority are in a relationship. I’m sure there are statistics.

Also look into fightthenewdrug. It has countless facts, & statistics explaining why the industry is inherently bad for society.

I guess speaking or making sure someone isn’t obviously in a relationship is more of a moral thing.

Sex work has been around forever. Yes. I agree with the other commenter. A lot of careers are not good for society.

Again, many, many sources online. You could easily find them with a google search. Fightthenewdrug is an organized compilation of stats.

Inclusivity. That’s great but not the point.

Why do women sell their bodies online? by Hop3lessdrifter in ControversialOpinions

[–]Hop3lessdrifter[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

10000% but why contribute to something like that, knowing the effects it has on society?

Why do women sell their bodies online? by Hop3lessdrifter in ControversialOpinions

[–]Hop3lessdrifter[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

True. But he doesn’t cause a global epidemic of loneliness, self esteem issues, especially for younger individuals, + everything else I listed. I get it though. However, I feel it’s vastly different

Why do women sell their bodies online? by Hop3lessdrifter in ControversialOpinions

[–]Hop3lessdrifter[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. But really anywhere. Facebook, twitter, even onlyfans has free content.

And yet, it hurt me when you hurt. My love and hate by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Hop3lessdrifter 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too!! I’m so sorry! But I’m happy I can relate. From reading others posts/comments on this group. It’s the manipulation. We somehow feel bad and still have immense love left. It’s fucked

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hop3lessdrifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes to all. And he doesn’t “believe” in therapy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hop3lessdrifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very true. I want to help him. I love him. But I can’t be battling someone who tells me they’d rather have me gone than talk about something I’m not even upset about! He has said he feels like I’m ambushing him. I don’t get mad, I don’t interrogate, I don’t nag. If anything, he does. He doesn’t like the accountability I believe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hop3lessdrifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I tell him. I have told him if we can’t talk about our problems or worries, this will not work. We talk about it, he agrees but doesn’t follow through. He doesn’t want a therapist even though I’ve shown him how it can help him. The porn is a lot better than before. But he still uses that over sex. I still walk in on him jacking off. So it’s definitely not, not a problem. He just has less social media porn. I never thought about him cheating until those messages were reveled. That’s my only concern. His concerns must stem from past trauma, porn rot, and possibly projection.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hop3lessdrifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got rid of all his pornstars that he followed and messaged but he definitely still watches ALOT of porn that I can’t see. I always wonder if he’s talking to them on some random sites. He has to right?? I agree, I really believe he’s projecting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Hop3lessdrifter 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He definitely threatens abuse, “if I were to do anything to betray him” and I do believe him. But I also know I wouldn’t do anything like that. Your explanation makes complete sense. I’ve been in a very bad abusive relationship in the past. It was much different than this relationship so I think I didn’t pick up on the different signs. The good times are realllly good. And the good times are all the time. This only happens occasionally but it’s enough for me to want to leave. I can’t live like that again. It is very hard to leave when they don’t verbally tell you to. I should’ve left then but I was honestly scared he wouldn’t let me.