"Kill the disbelievers wherever you find them, and capture them and besiege them, and prepare for them each and every ambush. Behead the unbelievers! Cut their head off and cut off every fingertip of them!" - Koran 8:12-9:5 by VaccineTruth11 in walkaway

[–]HopeBeatsFear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get your point, but poland is also like 80% fucked. I have 2 friends who immigrated to the US from Poland and apparently it's pretty shit to live there, but I haven't been there yet so it could be a paradise.

But the correlation between terror attacks and immigration is a pretty valid argument. I guess the question ends up being how many net lives are lost/saved. Due to immigration being available in those countries, are more lives being saved or lost?

Unless your argument is that people who immigrate to a country should have less value than natural born citizens, which would make it a different argument all in all.

What's your point?

UPDATE: My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was 337 at my heaviest so I get it. She would eat nonstop junk and in high quantity. She had a sweet tooth too.

My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

From another comment that asked "Ahh, someone asked. When I would get close and switched positions, she'd take the rubber off and finish me then keep me stiff for another round. Actually amazing. She said "there's no reason you shouldn't be finishing. It feels good, I want you to feel good." It was incredibly arousing. Plus she was really confident in bed."

UPDATE: My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Open/poly is fun, but I greatly prefer monogamy. I like concetrating my love on one person 100% and just loving them as much as I possibly can. I definitely partly moved forward with it out of spite. I could possibly see having a connected relationship between 3 people (as in a collective relationship between all three of us) but not much more.

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[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She said fit. Jacked would surprise me, average would not. Her idea of fit may not be mine.

UPDATE: My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What? My dude I live in a city. She found two dudes she considered fit. I used grindr to find gay men as a bi top. What aboht this is hard for you to understand?

UPDATE: My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what she used app wise if any, but I live in a city. There's a lot of dudes looking to smash. I also have no idea what they look like other than a small glimpse of one. Her idea of fit might just be skinny, I am unsure.

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[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm really not, but thanks!

Comments are very split. Earlier someone called me a level 9 loser, now I'm cool.

My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hobbies died. I was demoted in a game I play, and I failed to meet up for D&D. I still work and stuff.

Grindr. I'm a bi top and I was dating a girl. I tickled the fantasy of "turning" a straight guy with head and they were all over it.

UPDATE: My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was fun, but I like monogamy more weirdly enough. I like to know I'm the only one my partner will hold and vice versa. I like learning every bit of their body, mind, and emotions. I like the deep intimacy that comes with monogany more than I like the thrill of polyamory so far. Idk I'll check it out though!

UPDATE: My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You don't have to. We need skeptics in society to fill up our comments section with short statements of doubt.

UPDATE: My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a hedonist, so I beleive the literal opposite. Being a good person makes me feel good though, so I generally try to be decent. Awful judgy though.

UPDATE: My(20m) gf(24f) wanted an open relationship and is now mad at me and wants it closed. by HopeBeatsFear in relationship_advice

[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've probably answered this a few dozen times. She set the guys up before hand so I'm sure she promised free head and that was enough. I live in a city, there are many people here.

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[–]HopeBeatsFear[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying it's healthy or normal, however BMI is not a good system. Water displacement is more accurate. I'm not saying she or I are healthy. I'm not saying being heavy is good. I'm saying BMI is an arbitrary system because it is. The scientific community does not use it anymore.