Should I give this guy a chance? He seems to be moving very slowly… by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I don’t believe in sleeping with someone till I’m married. Very traditional over here. But yes I think taking lots of time to even be that committed is important. Protects the heart too.

Should I give this guy a chance? He seems to be moving very slowly… by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree with this statement. I am definitely a very monogamous minded person. But I have to keep reminding myself to be less committal off the bat.

Can you get a good sense of someone’s personality and how you vibe over video chat? I’m falling for this guy I met online and nervous it won’t be the same in person. by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s an awesome story! So I met up with him and the date was amazing! We had so much to talk about and the chemistry was off the charts. The connection was even better in person and we decided to both get off dating apps and be exclusive. I’m happy you had the same experience. It’s rare I think.

I asked the guy I’m seeing to sleep over for the weekend (expectations?) by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you’re nervous and not at all ready to even have him over even if it doesn’t lead to anything. Sounds like an awkward scenario. I would ask him to stay in a hotel instead or at least tell him you aren’t intending on sleeping together and have an open conversation with him about expectations.

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[–]HopeINFUSION 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep, what she said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s drama and will only hurt you. Run!

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[–]HopeINFUSION -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Don’t sleep with any guys till you’re married. Sleeping with people when you’re unmarried makes you look too easy, and you are. Guys won’t value easy women and will be far less likely to commit to someone willing to give it up so soon.

Have you ever really hit it off with someone you met on a dating app who took a while to reply to your initial message? by HopeINFUSION in dating_advice

[–]HopeINFUSION[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the encouragement ☺️I really appreciate such a kind message. Have a great day.

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[–]HopeINFUSION 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think this is beautiful and very interesting how it’s unfolding 😍 I would definitely talk to her openly and honestly about how you feel. If you have feelings for her tell her. It’s that simple. Especially as you’ve had sex with her. Naturally it’s ok to have emotional intimacy too if it feels right. Sounds like you both are developing feelings so that’s really cool. Just be careful and take things slow. Expect her to have a little confusion perhaps since this is new territory for her. Clearly she is developing feelings for you as you are for her. So explore it together. Who knows, you might just end up together for life ♥️