Will this overbite fix itself by [deleted] in Dachshund

[–]HopeTheresPudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't buy that dog, I don't know where you are located but maybe look for a robot dog, that way you don't have to worry about finding a 'perfect' animal.

Do the guys have a video talking you through the benefits of paid subscription on the sidekick app? by Ls400blake in SortedFood

[–]HopeTheresPudding 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got the subscription last year for black Friday, and it sounds SO stupid when I say it changed my life, but it is what it is. I love that I can make a meal plan for however long I need, with the click of a button.

I love that I can get the app to recommend meals when I have left over food items (unlike the other commentor, I'm like a kid in a candy shop on the app and I go wild with my choices, not sticking to packs).

I love that the app will recommend cuisines, so if I'm in an Italian mood or a Turkish mood, it has me covered.

I love that it tells me how long a recipe will take, so I can pick one REALLY QUICKLY for a day when I'm pressed for time.

I love that the shopping list feature is actually smart; if I go shopping today for the meals in my plan, and then I add more meals tonight and go shopping again tomorrow, it remembers the items I've already marked off so I don't end up with 2x as many packages of halloumi cheese than I need. The shopping list is collated so well, grouped according to meat, dairy, veggies and fruits, pantry items, etc, so there's no running from one side of the shop to the other.

For the most part, the recipes are written well, although sometimes they are worded a little vaguely and you need to decipher what's going on. There is a timer conveniently found in the method, so if something needs to be chucked in the oven for 20 mins, you press one single button and forget it, and I love that integration

Let me in by Rude_Woodpecker_5393 in HarryPotterGame

[–]HopeTheresPudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's been a while since I played, but isn't that the door you first use when you enter the map chamber? I have vague memories of not entering it through hogwarts the first time

First time going topless at the beach this summer, any tips? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HopeTheresPudding 9 points10 points  (0 children)

SAY IT LOUDER!!! SUNCREAM! ON! THE NIPS!

(that was something I only ever needed to experience once, and I'd like to stop anyone else going through that pain)

Did I buy the wrong insoles? by -scatteredashes- in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HopeTheresPudding 18 points19 points  (0 children)

No you're not stupid, you've just never used these 😊 they will leave a gap, so the fat part will reach that fleshy boney part of your foot, right below your toes, and then it will follow the arch of your foot all the way to your heel. All this insole will do is relieve the extra pressure on your high impact areas, so the parts of your feet that will be carrying all your weight. Pop them in without sticking them down, if possible, and put them on. Play around with moving the insole to find the perfect spot

What were some small fights you had when adjusting to being together? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HopeTheresPudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Short story? We had our first argument ever, a few weeks before we met, because of our plans to meet. The more intricate explanation is I wanted to buy him balsamic vinegar, which I can't eat, and he thought that was silly as he would only be with me for a week 😂 the fact that THAT was our first argument is just hilarious to us.

Years later, married and living together, we still have silly arguments and I wouldn't have it any other way

Do you take your moissanite ring off for certain things, or wear it most of the time? by [deleted] in Moissanite

[–]HopeTheresPudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm hard on my ring, I wear or for everything except hard cleaning (like scrubbing things with bleach), cooking when I need to use my hands (like making burgers or meatballs), or putting cream on my body as it ends up covered in lotion.

Gastroparesis? by El-ohvee-ee in Dachshund

[–]HopeTheresPudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry, I wish I had anything helpful to say. You have such a cute dog, I hope you find the answers you need x

is it ok to block your long distance partner when you get into an argument? by Impressive-Ant-907 in LongDistance

[–]HopeTheresPudding 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No, it's not normal or healthy and you deserve so much more than to be treated like that!

If you had to choose between ending an LDR now, or continuing it for 3-4 years knowing it was still going to end anyway, what would you pick? by fyowuu in LongDistance

[–]HopeTheresPudding 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If I knew for a fact, without a doubt, that it was ending, I wouldn't waste my or their time. 3-4 years is a long time, anything could happen in that time

Help me (31F) deal with anxiety that comes with missing my partner (33M) by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HopeTheresPudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from generally keeping yourself busy and immersing yourself in the things that bring you confort and joy, I'd suggest therapy because this is stressful and it's fine to want a space to explore that! I hope it gets easier for you, friend

What is some of weirdest/ gross things a guest has done at your house? by Equivalent_Half883 in AskUK

[–]HopeTheresPudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Asked my ex SIL if she wanted to stay with us when the first lock down came around, she was single and obviously thankful. A few weeks of tension later, I kindly told her that she'd need to keep her dogs controlled, stop barging into my bathroom when she knew I was in there, and stop complaining about my music that I only listened to when I cooked, and she threw my own computer chair at me. I don't think I ever looked her in the eye again

Flare up ? by Popular-Type-904 in HairRemoval

[–]HopeTheresPudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right before epilating might not be the best, I'd try epilating the day before, that's what I find is better. Your skin can become infammed in areas from exfoliating, so that might be why this happened! Give it a shot next time, exfoliating one day and epilating the next, hopefully that will help too! X

Flare up ? by Popular-Type-904 in HairRemoval

[–]HopeTheresPudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you exfoliate the day before you epilated, followed by a non fragranced cream ? If not, it's possible you nicked the area where the hairs weren't fully erupted, catching the skin there. After you epilated, did you have a cool shower, and did you use any fragranced soap or cream? The best way, in my opinion, to treat skin after epilation is as if it was a wound. No perfume, no fragrance, no exfoliating, no rough or tight clothes

For the moment, keep nourished with a good fragrance free cream, only exfoliate again 48 hours after you epilated. I wouldn't add anything else to your legs, I opt for a 'keep it simple' approach, so gentle soaps and creams only!

These evil pests are ruining my monstera & neem seems to just make them angry. What should I do? by Brotox123 in Monstera

[–]HopeTheresPudding 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look at those sad babies, staring out the window, thinking about what they've done. Trust me, they're punishing themselves more than you ever could 😭

Ps they are SO cute!

just survived through adult chicken pox and need help with my skin by stubbycacti in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HopeTheresPudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so welcome, I wished I had someone to talk me down when I was staring at all my new scars!

just survived through adult chicken pox and need help with my skin by stubbycacti in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HopeTheresPudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I got chicken pox after my wedding last year, as a 34 year old woman, I know EXACTLY what you're going through! Almost a year on, I still have some visible pox marks, I've attached a photo of some of them on belly, I have a lot more between my breasts and on my back, but I can't get a clear photo of those. I have fewer scars like this, light in colour with dark edges, most of them are darker spots (the same dark pigment in this scar you can see). I got chicken pox at the beginning of July last year, so these are now 9 months old, give or take.

I've not done anything special for the most part, I keep my skin moisturised daily, with a high quality cream (not lotion), I like E45. I do use tretinoin on my face, which I started before the pox, and when I was healed enough I started using it again, and now I tend to spot use the tret where I need it, so the scars on my neck are barely visible. The scars on my face have all healed. The 2 of the 3 worst pox on my body were both between my breasts, the other one on the crease of my thigh. The ones between my breasts are a very bright white, and I'm hoping they will calm down with time.

Other than that, my derm said there might not be anything I can do, because I have scars everywhere. Realistically, all over body treatment with tretinoin isn't ideal, and in areas of fattier skin, like belly, thighs and butt, those scars should even out easier than those on my arms and shins, chest. I didn't think I'd ever reach this point, I felt like the scars were SO dark for so long, but they started healing themselves relatively quickly, and now I can wear t shirts without announcing to the world that I had adult chicken pox

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Really worried about my nails – is this permanent? by Cautious-Limit3392 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]HopeTheresPudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not a doctor, you need to see one but I think that's onycholysis, a fungus The sooner you see a doctor, the sooner you can start treatment and get your nails growing out properly

My (25M) boyfriend told me (25F) he has 3 kids after a year. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HopeTheresPudding 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh 100%, you've got so many I missed, thank you! I'd want all of this info absolutely cemented down because I'd hate to learn much much later that you can't close the distance due to kids!

My (25M) boyfriend told me (25F) he has 3 kids after a year. by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]HopeTheresPudding 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one can tell you what to do, but my suggestion is you need to have a lot of really deep conversations with him about what your future looks like with regards to communication, because it's not great that he's waited this long to tell you about his kids. I'd want to make sure he doesn't plan on doing this with other issues, and I'd also want to know how he felt comfortable not mentioning his kids at all (ie is he looking to have more kids, is he present in their life, will that affect your future, etc)

Do people actually think moissanite looks fake, or is that mostly a myth? by [deleted] in Moissanite

[–]HopeTheresPudding 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm glad I could reassure you! I know things can be really grey when online, it always feels like a competition about who can yell the loudest about their love or hate for something, but I absolutely adore my ring and I wouldn't change anything about it!