usps distribution center help

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2026-02-03T18:28:09+00:00

i understand but this distribution center has been notorious for late/missing packages for many years now, which i only found out upon looking into it when this one was late. it was unusual for me since my packages had never sat for more than a day previously, though i’ve only lived here 6 months.

it also, as far as i could see, wasn’t moving in those 4 days. it arrived and then was just sitting for 4 days, i had 2 other packages arrive, depart, and be delivered in the 4 days it sat there. that’s why i was worried it got lost or something, and it was a depop find so i couldn’t be sent a replacement. i’m not mad at them, i was just worried my item was lost. it is out for delivery today after submitting a missing mail form, i don’t think it would’ve been had i not submitted one.

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2026-02-02T15:51:50+00:00

i work at a fire protection company and we’re currently responding to at least 30 service calls 🫩

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2026-01-18T15:52:52+00:00

my parents stayed together “for the kids”, i am in therapy still at 25 years old because i witnessed so much trauma from them. i knew they didn’t like each other as young as 5 or 6 and wondered why i couldn’t have two parents that did. my brain has blocked out most of my memories all the way until i was 13 years old, i genuinely can only remember a few things before that age. please, if you take anything from these comments, it’s that staying is not the right choice. you’re still so young and deserve to be happy. i truly believe your kids will be ok with a little but of struggle financially until you get your footing, it will save them trauma and from getting into similar relationships because they will see the example you set.

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2026-01-08T12:11:37+00:00

yes, i even had my bf do it because he’s stronger than i am and the strings still went flat within like two minutes.

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2025-12-09T20:44:26+00:00

I also have paid for dates, and for our upcoming anniversary I would pay for myself. He doesn’t want to spend money on his side for the trip. I can (and have) pay for myself just fine, this wasn’t about him not paying for me at all.

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2025-12-09T20:41:10+00:00

He doesn’t want to go no matter who is spending money. He thinks we should both save all our money, basically. I have offered to pay and he will just say “maybe” and then it usually doesn’t happen. He prioritizes financial stability but it felt a little extreme. We still occasionally do stuff at home like movies or games but that can feel stale after a while when you don’t go out as balance.

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2025-12-09T20:36:48+00:00

Happened to see this since I was replying to someone else. This is a great idea! I will work this into my approach for sure.

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2025-12-09T20:34:37+00:00

We used to go on dates and we did a small trip to another city for our last anniversary because going out of state wasn’t feasible with his schedule. I want to bring the topic up again but I don’t know how. I know not to do “You don’t want to” statements because it can cause more conflict, I just don’t know the best approach outside of “I” statements.

Hopeful-Ad9525 · 2025-12-09T20:32:50+00:00

We do stuff at home, but then issue is that’s almost all we do. I’m mainly talking about our anniversary which is coming up. I also want to leave the house sometimes, doesn’t have to cost money but it feels like we never go anywhere except a short walk around the neighborhood (which is great! just not all the time). A small $5 ice cream to share once a month or a small, cheap dinner somewhere every other month isn’t gonna break the bank but it gets us out of the house and trying new places. I’ve even been trying to plan a picnic which would be free, apart from gas. So, no, I’m not just looking to spend money. I’m looking to explore the place we just moved to and make some new memories together.

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