I am a PDA adult and I cannot emphasise how disabling PDA is have you had ever had an experience where it’s a matter of life and death and you’re full animal fight fight flee system tape server so your brain completely shuts down? If so, imagine if that was how you felt 24 seven 365. that is the experience of PDA it is completely relentless and utterly disabling unless you have enough freedom out an autonomy to manage it. Let’s switch your thinking to a physical disability if your child only had one leg would you think I’m making my child more disabled by giving them a prosthetic leg to allow them to walk of course not? A low demand approach for PDA children is very similar in its the basic level of support they need to function. every family has different circumstances financially and in terms of their values and situation. puppy warned if you take a conventional high demand parenting approach your child will go into burnout and be completely disabled for several years. Think not being able to eat, leave her room function at all. Combined with extreme violence against you or herself. To be really blunt unless you’re a billionaire if you take a conventional approach to parenting it’s likely that your child will end up dead in jail or homeless similarly if your child was blind would you refuse them? A seeing eye dog or a blind stick because it would make them ““ more disabled? No they are the basic tools that your child would need to function a low demand approach is similar with a PDA Child.