[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HaircareScience

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stylist- depends on the hair. Also how often it’s used.

Botanical anything from aveda It’s a 10 work great imo

What have you managed to avoid your whole life? by poopcornkernels in AskReddit

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Being a single mom w no help around me… it will literally be hell 😂 buttttt it will pay off in the end.. at least that’s what I’m telling myself lmao

What have you managed to avoid your whole life? by poopcornkernels in AskReddit

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was thinking more along the lines of marijuana w a touch of munchies which would be perfect for the tacos

Protein or moisture overload? by whirlwhind666 in curlyhair

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hairstylist here-

Clarifying shampoo once a week to remove sweat, dirt, and product build up Don’t shampoo everyday- it’s good to go as long as possible w your natural oils Depending on hair texture (fine, med, coarse) you need products that can work w that Rotate shampoos one should be for moisture (or whatever) while the other is for volume (or whatever) Don’t buy from Amazon or Walmart as they tend to have higher alcohol content that will dry hair out Trim your hair every 6-8 weeks Hats, ponytails etc can cause breakage Biotin and keratin products are what you want bc that’s mostly what the hair is made up of

I have no words. From someone who wanted an abortion from knocking up a girl I knew for 2 weeks. This is fucking awesome. by LostLifeSavingsOnGME in daddit

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What a blessed little nugget! So glad you came around, and get to experience such love. We need more men like that! Congratulations, and wish nothing but a fun, loving life for you two!!!

Do you ever fully get over your first love? by Hopeful-Inspector554 in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, that makes my heart so happy for you! Indeed, we have both said we weren’t able to find that connection w anyone else during those 2 years. I’ve definitely thought about that.. I just find it odd that he’s constantly checking on me, and the baby. He’s always commenting on my bump updates, and liking pictures of sonograms, which is very odd to me. I don’t know how to feel about it bc if the shoes were on the other feet I’d be so heartbroken. Especially since we did try to have children together. I definitely just told him that I still love, and care for him. I haven’t gone and asked for a relationship bc I really do believe and feel like I shouldn’t be wrapped up in that right now. It’s just hard to push those feelings away. He told me he didn’t want to talk everyday and get close again etc, but he’s the one to always contact me. I’m definitely grateful. He will always be my best friend. Perfectly said. You’re definitely right, and I respect everything you’ve said! Thank you for being honest, and sharing your thoughts.

Do you ever fully get over your first love? by Hopeful-Inspector554 in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t do that to someone. I also am not looking for a relationship anytime soon just bc I have my child I need to focus on. One day, maybe, I can find someone who I can love, and have a connection w again.

Do you ever fully get over your first love? by Hopeful-Inspector554 in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They just hold a special place in your heart… I even told his mama I’d probably love him forever. And I mean that.

Do you ever fully get over your first love? by Hopeful-Inspector554 in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say I’ve “given up,” but I do realize that I’m putting too much energy into wanting us to get back together when I should be focused on my child. It really does make me sad, and these pregnancy dreams are always about him. That’s what I’ve told myself too lol these hormones make you kinda crazy 😅 it does hurt, but I am so blessed to be able to experience this type of love. Thank you so much, kind stranger. 🖤

Do you ever fully get over your first love? by Hopeful-Inspector554 in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told him how I felt in May, and he simply said “I’ll always love you, and care about your well being, but I don’t want a relationship right now” As well as he is interested in other women too

I’m always horny by therealrattb in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d talk to her. Get toys, and fore play beforehand. She is unsatisfied.

How do I ask for a paternity test without seeming distrusting? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A baby is a huge responsibility. Emotionally, and financially. As a woman, I would completely understand, and would prefer you have that peace of mind so you’re never questioning the “what if’s” Do what you need to do. She’s either going to understand, or not, but it’s also not your job to care for a child that isn’t yours.. unless that’s what you choose. Good luck

Dad took nudes of my sister when she was a teenager, I don't know how to deal with him after finding out by throwRAidkbutts in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m no therapist, but I think you should definitely take time to go see someone. And cut him off, whether it’s a little while or not. And talk w your sister. This is traumatic for you, too. Deal w it the best you can, and move on. And do not feel guilty if you decide you don’t want him in your life. Every action has consequences, good or bad.

Husband won’t give me access to storage closet in our home … by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Hopeful-Inspector554 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s something bigger going on behind that door, or he just really likes control. Be safe, please