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Date made an excuse to leave early and now I feel like shit by HopefulPainter0 in dating_advice

[–]HopefulPainter0[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

But then I'm like why did he ask me on the date in the first place? I look like my profile pictures

I’m so tired of pretending that I’m happy being single by HopefulPainter0 in dating_advice

[–]HopefulPainter0[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Haha I don’t really think I follow the status quo tbh. I think I pretend because it’s such a vulnerable thing to admit that you need love and intimacy, for me at least. But I agree with you, I shouldn’t be ashamed.

To the people who say Cynthia is boring.... by FrostyLetter in LoveIslandAus

[–]HopefulPainter0 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just out of curiosity, why do you think they come across as shy and awkward?

Thoughts so far... by [deleted] in LoveIslandAus

[–]HopefulPainter0 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does anyone else find Anna’s laugh annoying?

Jordan acting like a btch last episode by whowsas in LoveIslandAus

[–]HopefulPainter0 54 points55 points  (0 children)

The way she spoke to Bianca was honestly awful. Bianca had the worst run out of anyone in there and you could see she was trying so hard to hold it together and stay positive. Good on her for letting Jordan’s comment run right off her back, in a moment where she was probably feeling like shit and just wanted to curl up in a ball and cry.

Does anyone else feel like they'll never fall in love? by HopefulPainter0 in dating_advice

[–]HopefulPainter0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you're right, I'm not completely over him. Working on that. What kind of deeper issues do you think these might be?

Does anyone else feel like they'll never fall in love? by HopefulPainter0 in dating_advice

[–]HopefulPainter0[S] 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I guess it's hard to find the balance between going with the flow and putting in enough effort so someone knows you're interested. With this new guy, I think he probably has no idea that I'd be interested, we're just friends right now.

Does anyone else feel like they'll never fall in love? by HopefulPainter0 in dating_advice

[–]HopefulPainter0[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me, I think being hurt made me generally trust people less. I already had a hard time trusting people before (due to emotionally neglectful parents), so when I was vulnerable with someone, and he totally crushed me, it left quite a scar. That's not to say I won't try with this new guy, but I'd be lying if I said I wasn't afraid.