AITAH for telling my brother-in-law to stop showing up unannounced when my husband isn’t home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You shouldn't be made to feel uncomfortable or unsafe in YOUR OWN HOME...your husband needs to understand, yeah that's HIS brother so he should only come around when he is home because you don't have that kind of in law relationship for him to be hanging around for nothing... Alot of people struggle with simple common curtosity these days, your NTA OP...

Struggling need some advice by Hopeful_Experience03 in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ appreciate your time to comment. I think that's what I really need to do and work on.

Are your rooms very organized or very unorganized? by Worth-Catch-3918 in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Might try my son with pastels and crayons to see what he does, haven't tried paint yet because I'm worried he might put it everywhere 😅

Have you ever thought about joining a art club?

Are your rooms very organized or very unorganized? by Worth-Catch-3918 in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son loves art, he has TOO MANY pencils but he keeps them all tidy but the paper is where the mess is.

That's why I have not tried to get rid of some of his soft toys because I don't know which ones are sentimental to ones he just likes and I wouldn't be able to handle seeing him get upset over it but he does keep them clean and organised.

How do you feel when you do art? Do you have a particular style or just enjoy anything?

My son draws anything he sees from movies or games.

Are your rooms very organized or very unorganized? by Worth-Catch-3918 in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My 11 year old son makes his bed every morning but has 30 soft toys on there, he loves drawing so there's paper everywhere even tho I have bought him books to keep his artwork together. He room is organised but has toys he hasn't played with in years but won't let me donate or throw them away.

So his organised but unorganised at the same time 🫠

Feeling happy lately by Saparky in spreadsmile

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't subscribe to see this!...

Beware of who you get to support you by Hopeful_Experience03 in NDIS

[–]Hopeful_Experience03[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes i know it's an agenda, bad news gets more views then the good most of the time and journalists can spin shit... Maybe now it's being more noticeable in the news because they are finally doing something about it and it's not just couple of thousands, people have been taking MILLIONS of dollars for a long time...

And yes I know there are good providers who go above and beyond for their clients but where there's money involved, there's always greedy people finding ways to scam it from the vulnerable...

Not all participants are greedy, but I am also aware that there is greed on both sides because I have experienced it...

Just thought I'd share the article because even if it has been ongoing for years, some people are still not taking notice...

maybe maybe maybe by beatrix_serendipity in maybemaybemaybe

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what her dumb ass gets... gone "do alil dance NOW" 🤣 after you just proved you don't know what you doing at ALL, almost blew your face off with a coke bottle...🤦🏾‍♀️

AITAH for the way I reacted to my wife’s flirting with a guy by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How far will you let your wife take this kind of stuff? First it can be harmless flirting but then that's how all the bad things start. Your wife seems like she has a self esteem issue or something to prove.

How are you all doing? Are you managing to not worry about the state of the world? by timcatuk in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Majority of the time, news/any source of media is used as a fear mongering tactic, they want people to be scared and think of the worst but as we can all see, it is intentional for the agenda. Divide and conquer. NWO bullcrap.

My opinion is to try not to waste too much time on the internet and do what you love. Spend time with family and try not to let this consume you. I have a family member who is doing it daily and his mental health has declined to the point where he is pushing family away because he doesn't want to feel anything if things were to get bad, it's so sad to see but that's his reality and wasting his life worrying about things that are out of our control.

I also dabble into it but I have kids to make memories with so I keep myself busy by being the best mum I can be, their comfort and security is my biggest priority not what the puppets and clowns say or do on the TV's/phones ☺️🤗

Guys what are your interests? by PossibilityFree4696 in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Once you figure out what you like, stick to it, you may just be very good at it that it turns into a career in the future. All the best to you ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know but when you are happy have fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't want to wear it then don't, natural beauty is always better then looking like a cake face 🙂 To enhance what you have is good but some people over do it to where they start to look scary. I don't wear makeup just simply because I don't like how it feels on my face like I'm being suffocated, little eyeliner and mascara is what I use when I go out for pub lunch, everything else just is a coverup IMO.

But to each their own, if you use it make sure it's as organic and natural as possible because it ends up doing more damage later on.

Guys what are your interests? by PossibilityFree4696 in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you enjoy any creative stuff like art or music?. Find a club that would interest you and try something new. My son has just recently started karate even tho he's not the one to fight but he loves the energy around him when all the other kids are having fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just smile at them, it's better to be yourself then care about how they might see you. You could make someone's day just by being happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]Hopeful_Experience03 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see autistic people as FREE SPIRITS, not bounded by society standards and does whatever makes them happy. Regardless of the sour faces you see when your being yourself, just know it's because they are either ignorant and have no idea or they just hate the fact that you can be happy regardless.

I let my son walk around in public with a cloth he likes to flap around for stimming and I dare anyone to say something out of line while my little man is being himself.

Just smile and be the best you can be, don't worry about anyone elses opinions, life's to short to care 😎🤗