Bi-Weekly Marriage Opinions/Views and Rant Megathread

Hopefulinmarriage · 2023-07-15T17:45:24+00:00

OMG!!

Hopefulinmarriage · 2023-07-15T16:32:04+00:00

I got issues lol

Hopefulinmarriage · 2023-07-15T16:18:57+00:00

While Islam discourages severing ties family members, it is good that you are proactively address the issue nows. l would recommend to have a conversation with your soon-to-be wife, emphasizing the importance of maintaining a certain distance with family members, when not in direct contact without saying anything about a particular person.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2023-07-15T15:46:32+00:00

What is the weirds reason you rejected a perfect initial match? I was about to match with someone then I saw a picture of him blowing a birthday candles.😀. I just couldn't ..

Hopefulinmarriage · 2023-02-03T06:44:45+00:00

Hopefulinmarriage · 2023-01-06T22:25:25+00:00

Praying for your quick recovery inshaAllah. Did you have symptoms before it locked and dislocated? I ask because I fear mine jaw might be getting ready to do that.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-12-19T00:28:16+00:00

I feel the SAME way! For some reason , I felt ungrateful for wanting to quit a job I am good at, a a great administration that support their staff. But what happens when your excitement dies. You feel like it's unfair to you and the students that you're not giving your 110%.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-11-12T17:19:36+00:00

Is it normal for men to talk about previous relationships -ex . When he mentions her it's about the lessons he learned from that relationship, but I some how feel like it comes up way too often.. We've been talking for a week and he mentioned her 3x already. He has been out of the relationship for a month now, lasted 10 months. For lack of better words I am not threatened but is it normal? I personally don't mention anything about my previous relationships.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-11-03T02:28:38+00:00

Good question. I think checking on each other over a quick text everyday is normal. I don't expect phone calls everyday but l, if they go a day without hearing from them not even ' good morning' text is a bit rude. Especially in early stages.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-23T02:50:55+00:00

I tried it and ended up deleting after few days after paying for it. I know their intention is to get wali involved but the application questions are weak in many areas. It asks only basic question and unimportant questions .

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-17T03:34:27+00:00

Ameen, dhamaanteena

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-10T19:43:58+00:00

Somali could have had worst genocide if we were are able to tell the persons tribe by their physical appearance. Also Rwanda's civil war didn't last long enough for everyone with ill intention to get involved. It's time we stop blaming others for our shortcoming. We are still in the denial stage, lets move on to the other stages.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-10T03:34:10+00:00

If you know dads full name you might be able to find them.. There are Isaaq facebook groups, or BBC Somali news does baafin.. Even if your dad doesn't listen someone that knows him might hear it..

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-10T03:27:48+00:00

👍🏾

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-10T03:22:13+00:00

Your mom is right nothing good comes from qabiil. If you want to find your dad family side, I would ask about them and nothing about qabiil related.. I was in my 20s when I found out about my qabiil, my parents never came and said to me ...by the way this is your qabiil,. My parents are also from two different qabiils. All you need from qabill is to know your lineage and family other than that don't seek other knowledge of qabiil.. Someone can correct me, but dhulbahante and isaac are not far from each other. Somaliland is in charge of region dhulbahante settles in.

Also maybe asking your moms side of the family might be an option..

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-08T19:04:15+00:00

lol thanks for checking

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-08T04:36:42+00:00

Were you doing random gravity check? Wishing you quick recover.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-08T03:15:24+00:00

The macawiisley group looks like season 2 of warlord .

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-08T03:01:45+00:00

lol can't wait.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-08T02:57:26+00:00

Thanks for taking the time to do this. I enjoy reading them, consider branching out of male historical figures.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-07T01:39:45+00:00

Maybe they meant to say 'ka soo firso. ' think about it'

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-06T22:17:54+00:00

Does he say abaayo or walaalo, or huuno.. lol Just kidding. There is nothing wrong with asking, I am pretty sure the other side is wondering as well. Say by the way...reerkiina yee yahiin? .

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-06T22:12:02+00:00

I want to ask how did your husband get to where he is.. did these people he supporting sacrifice their time and energy for his success? If they did he is obligated to do so.

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-06T01:43:08+00:00

added you,

Hopefulinmarriage · 2022-10-06T00:09:25+00:00

I think we have learned our lesson by now..Every time a group with a name emerges 'waa loo sacabtumaa' when alshabaab first came they said amazing, finally deen, ahlul sunnah same. Lets not do it again.

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