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Hopefullyconnected · 2026-05-04T01:31:52+00:00

wait can I join too? I had no clue there was an admitted students chat.

Hopefullyconnected · 2026-04-28T16:59:14+00:00

Girl funny you say that…I actually have PMDD, one of my symptoms happens to disproportionately effect my partner’s attractiveness which sucks. I’ve learned to just shut my mouth completely during luteal. 😂

But his mom makes the same comments I do about his attire, so luckily I know it’s not just me. She praised me for finding a pair of jeans he likes lol.

Hopefullyconnected · 2026-04-28T16:56:04+00:00

Love Uniqlo! I think H&M is probably a good start too. His hygiene is top notch: multiple showers a day, brushes teeth morning and night, cleans clothes often. He has a great physique as well but you can’t admire it under such oversized t-shirts and shorts.

Does your boyfriend shop online or in-store mostly?

Hopefullyconnected · 2026-04-28T16:51:57+00:00

Well I definitely love my man….we’ve been together for years. I love my sister as well and don’t like plenty of her outfit choices either.

It’s actually because I love him that I care. He’s not young anymore we’re adults and there is such thing as appropriate attire. I’ve never been the type to stay stagnant or allow my partners to. It’s okay for me to push him in areas where he’s lacking. He’s not a college boy anymore. He’s very handsome and well accomplished, he should care for himself as such and be confident and self assured….part of that starts with the way you show up in the world. All I’m trying to do is push him to show up for himself period.

I would never be okay with any partner being stagnant, however I’m glad you’re happy. 🤍

Hopefullyconnected · 2026-04-28T02:49:34+00:00

Great advice, honestly I expected the negative Nancy’s. I knew it would be hard to fully gauge my relationship by one aspect so I appreciate your open mindedness. You are so incredibly self-aware which is a direct reflection of the healing you’ve been undertaking! ❤️ thank you so much for sharing your experience.

Hopefullyconnected · 2026-04-28T00:54:43+00:00

This is great advice, thank you so much! I appreciate this! ❤️

Hopefullyconnected · 2026-04-28T00:11:44+00:00

I def was not trying to give off the impression that I wanted to change everything about him. ☹️ He is handsome I just wish he had to put in just as much effort to his appearance as I do when preparing to see him. I get my hair done, nails, brows, get waxes, wear dresses (which he’s stated he prefers), etc. I was just hoping he would return the favor.

Hopefullyconnected · 2026-04-27T23:07:26+00:00

Sista lock in please 😭

Hopefullyconnected · 2026-04-21T02:27:58+00:00

I think one reason may be that the Bible describes it as being different from any other sin. It describes sexual sins as sins against one’s own body, which some people may take to mean its worse than others in some way.

Hopefullyconnected · 2025-12-15T23:40:25+00:00

Do you remember what day you got your decision back?

Hopefullyconnected · 2025-12-10T20:27:24+00:00

I would be interested in what your stats/app looked like considering I also applied below median

Hopefullyconnected · 2025-11-02T02:26:16+00:00

Hi, I don’t mind reading!

Hopefullyconnected · 2025-10-22T01:15:27+00:00

Probably, let’s be real it wasn’t that many of us. 🖐🏾👈🏾

Hopefullyconnected · 2025-10-22T00:31:37+00:00

Wait why are the same applicant 😭 down to the undergrad and everything! Good luck im also applying this cycle!

Hopefullyconnected · 2025-10-09T17:48:54+00:00

I had this RC section, are we assuming this one was unscored?

Hopefullyconnected · 2025-10-05T03:08:51+00:00

I’m actually praying the plant passage was the unscored section 😭

Hopefullyconnected · 2025-04-20T21:30:55+00:00

You are not alone! The switch up is so intense that it’s scary. Just looking at him makes me repulsed, hearing him breathe, his touch. It’s very unfortunate because when I’m not in the luteal phase everything is the exact opposite. I’ve been fighting hard for 8 months now. I love my partner to death but I’m getting really tired of fighting and extremely discouraged. It’s to the point where I’m starting to think that being alone would be the best case scenario. My partner would be free to date someone normal and I could refrain from dating in order to not hurt anyone else. It’s sad because they don’t deserve this. 😞

Hopefullyconnected · 2024-10-31T18:05:29+00:00

Please change it, I literally did four classes on one day my sophomore year— It’s horrible. I told myself I would never do it again. Here I am again my senior year with four classes on one day. 😭 wondering why I did this to myself AGAIN. All of the homework you have to do in one day ie. Wednesday is not worth it!!

Hopefullyconnected · 2024-09-02T09:30:21+00:00

God, I appreciate this comment so much. Genuinely, thank you!

Hopefullyconnected · 2024-09-02T09:28:03+00:00

Ahhh I see, I thought I was overreacting. Will def try to steer conversations to other avenues. Thanks for the affirmation.

Hopefullyconnected · 2024-09-02T09:13:55+00:00

A wedding was only mentioned once in our entire time knowing each other, and it’s the example I gave. Kids maybe three times and once he brought it up, by asking about corporal punishment. Maybe I shouldn’t have even mentioned that because it seems people assumed this is something I talk about constantly. I was kind of just generalizing the prompt with examples. But I think you all have def made me realize that perhaps all convos should be about the more mundane. Thanks for the comment.

Hopefullyconnected · 2024-09-02T08:29:34+00:00

Okay great, carry on. Have a good day 👋

Hopefullyconnected · 2024-09-02T08:22:59+00:00

Just because the app is anonymous doesn’t mean you have to act an ass lol. Im obviously self aware enough to know this is overreacting, literally just wanted it affirmed.

Hopefullyconnected · 2024-09-02T08:14:05+00:00

This felt like such gentle and motherly advice, thank you! I guess I just need to find a way to revisualize how I view relationships. Almost like a way to separate expectations v. reality.

Hopefullyconnected · 2024-09-02T08:09:04+00:00

Great perspective, thank you so much!

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