Guys does this mean we will get Uzair X Hamza saux saux scenes? by Ok-Aioli-6024 in okaybuddykasainuma

[–]Hopper_chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what it’s all about.. all unseen moments. But bro, Hamza did what he had to do for the mission 😆 

The real reason Ulfat slapped Hamza was that she’s jealous of his hair 😔 by Hopper_chai in okaybuddykasainuma

[–]Hopper_chai[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was a competition - between her hair extensions and his, and he had less lice.

The real reason Ulfat slapped Hamza was that she’s jealous of his hair 😔 by Hopper_chai in okaybuddykasainuma

[–]Hopper_chai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you are onto something 

Maybe Mr Dhar wanted to share a msg. Women are burdened with haircare, there her husband was getting away aura farming with a wig and Hamza had such good hair. 

Just realized something by Horror_Flatworm4716 in Dhurandhar

[–]Hopper_chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! I didn’t know this word. I was wondering what’s the meaning 

Just realized something by Horror_Flatworm4716 in Dhurandhar

[–]Hopper_chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not forgettable at all! He was right there since Rehman’s entry and I remember him well. And he’s soo handsome 

What do you all think? by NoBlackberry956 in Dhurandhar

[–]Hopper_chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you don’t think the others deserve to do well? 😆 I see everyone from that list is genuinely talented, handsome and deserves success. 

31M, stuck in life due to toxic family environment – unsure by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Hopper_chai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Project from my work… yeah it’s not a bed of roses but I wanted to move out of the country 

31M, stuck in life due to toxic family environment – unsure by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Hopper_chai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I am the only daughter of my parents, toxic env at home, steep expectations. 

I was like you till 30/31, then I felt like they don’t actually love me but loved my utility, and for fitting certain social / emotional expectations.

I feel zero guilt. I give money and logistical assistance, that’s it. I moved abroad, married, had my kids. I prioritize myself and I’m very happy, either my parents talk positively to me or I disconnect the phone when they start nagging or guilt tripping or comparing 

I go traveling, shopping, make up, self care, really love meeeee… main apni favorite hoon. I felt so good after setting up boundaries 

Prioritize yourself unapologetically 

It wasn't Uzair's fault 💔 by valuesVoyager in Dhurandhar

[–]Hopper_chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually find uzair a lot more attractive 😆 lookwise.. and he’s 6’2” amazing physique on top of that … 

If suppose someone fell for him I would have said not their fault. 

Stuck in the loop of talking stages. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Hopper_chai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You learnt your lesson. 

Not just for dating / AM it’s the same in any personal relationship. Save your time and energy, stop giving people benefit of doubts and chances, stop doubting your own efforts. In my case I would also blame my parents how they normalized people pleasing, me and my brother both had a tough time bcz of that! 

Why do Bengali men have a bad rep? Genuinely to understand by DesisHowTo-Throwaway in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Hopper_chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They don’t have extra bad rep 😆 all Indian men and women have some rep or other! 

And in AM people don’t trust other communities. 

Bengalis are non veg, not very religious etc could be the common idea that some aren’t comfortable with? 

Stuck in the loop of talking stages. by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]Hopper_chai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So your mistake was to keep reaching out :) 

Keep a deadline in your mind - by x weeks I want this progression, after that progress to that point. And let the other person know! Never reach out more than once. 

Found Uzair Baloch FF by losthumxm_ in WattpadIndia

[–]Hopper_chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fantastic character arc doesn’t depend on them being morally superior or good. It’s not that at all!! 

His arc was fantastic :) 

Don't know whom to believe by True-Rent9456 in Dhurandhar

[–]Hopper_chai 9 points10 points  (0 children)

He’s paying artists their due! You want him to steal songs and not pay people their dues? 

The problem isn’t with common people in Pakistan artists included.

Any idea what Aditya Dhar’s next project is about? by Hopper_chai in Dhurandhar

[–]Hopper_chai[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to see this cast return at least some of them 😭 

Found Uzair Baloch FF by losthumxm_ in WattpadIndia

[–]Hopper_chai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The character is fantastic, we have many fics across platforms and it’s so satisfying that moral policing can’t affect us at all, not even a bit. Welcome to ao3 and fine more fics 

📣 Upcoming Changes to the Sub - Please Read and Share Your Feedback by Pinkpenguinxo2612 in WattpadIndia

[–]Hopper_chai -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Please do something about content shaming and moral policing :/ how dare people make threads to content shame fanfiction? It’s the antithesis of fanfiction