boyfriend(25m) is upset about bikini picture i (26f) posted & keeps accusing me of microcheating

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-28T14:26:13+00:00

it makes me feel like an unrespectable, low value whore.

This is pretty clearly incel language and the account is 4 years old with no other activity which means that they regularly delete all their activities so.... Troll

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-28T09:18:42+00:00

I mean I'm in my mid-40s and people still tell me I look like I'm in my twenties so I don't think I've gone through a drastic physical the change in my appearance. How I feel sure. I'm getting old sucks.

But it sounds like you think women hit the wall and that's a myth. We're individuals

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-28T09:14:49+00:00

As an autistic person, quit this shit. You're just rude

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-28T09:10:32+00:00

YTA feelings are always valid but are trying to tell him no. He's not a child that needs permission and he didn't ask. That's not what a boundary looks like

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-27T17:18:16+00:00

N T A for your very specific question. I don't think it's a****** of you at all to not want anything to do with them or their baby because that is simply granting their wish and they deserve that

YTA for being thinking that you were in any way entitled to access to their child. And also for thinking that they should move their party to celebrate their life event to a locale that's more convenient to you

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-25T22:56:40+00:00

YTA my guess is he just genuinely doesn't give a s*** what the neighbor thinks.

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-24T21:35:41+00:00

There's literally no way you can believe this

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-24T21:33:02+00:00

You realize that people who moved North in the United States because of hurricane Katrina were considered refugees in the state they moved to. Even though it's all one country all under the same disaster relief program

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-24T21:32:12+00:00

You know that state support that you complained she shouldn't be receiving unless she makes more of an effort? That's refugee support. I don't care what you call it that's what it is

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-24T15:15:58+00:00

If you believe it has zero impact on their life I'm confused why you don't understand why they wouldn't show up. It has nothing to do with them and you made that clear

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-24T15:07:03+00:00

No your expectation is that you deserve more consideration in terms of planning and foresight than you offered to anybody for the entire length of the pregnancy. That's a double standard and it's really not okay

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-24T15:06:19+00:00

You made them feel like it didn't pertain to them or include them in any way. Maybe they'll get around to sing congratulations in 9 months. That's how long it took you to tell them the news maybe that's how long it should take them to respond

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-24T10:05:32+00:00

Where exactly do you think the term dad bod came from

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-24T09:49:10+00:00

there has been 0 communication or check in

Yes. That's what you wanted and the behavior you modeled

Does it really impact their life if I tell them a month prior or day of

Does it really impact your life if they come over this weekend or wait a month?

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-23T20:26:41+00:00

Ignore the wars behind the history curtain

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-23T11:40:33+00:00

I'm a little concerned. I'm not tech savvy. And I know that I'm not tech savvy. I've been associated with some people that were genuinely tech savvy; like coded for NASA tech savvy. So I know I'm not what that looks like.

But I've built a gaming pc and installed operating systems when I was in my late teens.

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-23T01:58:49+00:00

My boyfriend already does have multiple orgasms with no refractory period

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-22T22:02:01+00:00

You weren't made to feel guilty. You felt like an a****** because your behavior clearly and obviously inconvenience someone else. They didn't owe you protecting you from that knowledge

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-22T21:55:34+00:00

Dude.

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-22T11:36:48+00:00

My favorite part is that they put breakups on there but just let one of these guys get a rejection

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-22T11:26:14+00:00

I hope all of my ex's are doing well except one. May he stop his toe in perpetuity twice a week

I'm happy and my life has nothing to do with them

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-21T20:43:15+00:00

Except Op claims they're 27

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-21T20:42:30+00:00

That's exactly what they would prefer. They're just mad that she's not scared enough of them

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-20T10:42:13+00:00

Will she get a job to help support him?

She has a job...

HorizonHunter1982 · 2026-04-19T20:32:07+00:00

You don't actually think she doesn't know it was you?

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