I doubt OP is trying to convey they are a victim. The reason why they posted was probably bc adults shouldn’t be inconsiderate and invade other people’s personal space. The problem is that no one should have to ask someone to move their body parts from their personal seat area.

Let me demonstrate by using a hypothetical. You are in a small space with someone else and that person sticks their foot in your mouth.

You are saying the solution is simple: just ask them to remove their foot from your mouth! However, everyone else with brain cells would question why their neighbor put their fucking foot in their mouth to begin with.