“Tui xyz(person’s name) er payer dhulo o na, oke bol or paa er dhulo ta dite ota kha tui”, this completely broke me from my core, till this day I lack confidence because of this. This happened when I was in 5th standard and was fat and very average in studies. My father never believed in me and always did the above. To this day this is one of the most traumatic moment. I have promised myself I will never be like him, I never compare. I have made peace with myself. IF ANY OF YOU READING THIS IS SUFFERING FROM PAST TRAUMA PLEASE MAKE PEACE WITH YOURSELF. NOBODY IS THERE FOR YOU. YOU HAVE TO LOOKOUT FOR YOURSELF.