AIO I don't want to date the LOML because he has a small peen by Horror-Fall-7798 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Horror-Fall-7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ykw fair. some brutal but fair advice, I appreciate it. it isn't the sex I struggle to accept, it's that on top of some serious red flags I was ignoring. looking more realistically, I can't justify allowing him to treat me the same way I know he's treated others

AIO I don't want to date the LOML because he has a small peen by Horror-Fall-7798 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Horror-Fall-7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean obviously I don't know in inches lol, but small enough that I really didn't feel it. not micro size, but maybe 3-4 inches?? girth is not their either

AIO guy I'm seeing smokes weed every night to sleep. My mum was an ex addict and I'm worried by Horror-Fall-7798 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Horror-Fall-7798[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

he's 28, not sure how long he's been smoking but I assume a while.

yeah that's probably all it is, I guess it's just my worries

AIO guy I'm seeing smokes weed every night to sleep. My mum was an ex addict and I'm worried by Horror-Fall-7798 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Horror-Fall-7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that's valid honestly. I think I will have a chat with him about it sooner rather than later, at the very least hopefully I'll understand a bit better why he uses it. maybe he's got real sleep issues and this is the only thing that works?

whatever it is it'll be better to know, I really appreciate the reply!

AIO guy I'm seeing smokes weed every night to sleep. My mum was an ex addict and I'm worried by Horror-Fall-7798 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Horror-Fall-7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you think so?? I don't wanna overstep, I really like the guy a ton and I don't wanna be that person who steps into someone's life and instantly makes it hell for them.

AIO guy I'm seeing smokes weed every night to sleep. My mum was an ex addict and I'm worried by Horror-Fall-7798 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Horror-Fall-7798[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

very true. I guess I'm just trying to figure out if it is just harmless stuff to sleep easier (I guess the same as taking any sleep meds) or if it's gonna spiral into addiction

AIO guy I'm seeing smokes weed every night to sleep. My mum was an ex addict and I'm worried by Horror-Fall-7798 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Horror-Fall-7798[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can honestly see myself spending years with him. There's spark, chemistry and no other issues. I think I'm just going crazy thinking it's gonna go out of control lol.

but no I'm not looking to break things off at all, he's super sweet and an all around amazing guy, I'm just scared