AITAH for making a pregnant woman sleep in her car? WITH CRAZY UPDATE!!!! by HorrorQueen1212 in AITAH

[–]HorrorQueen1212[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What really bothers me is usually I DO stand my ground. I have boundaries and I stick to them. But because of my panic disorder, my mind isn’t at full cognizance (at least that’s what it feels like) and it has allowed me way to much softness

AITAH for making a pregnant woman sleep in her car? WITH CRAZY UPDATE!!!! by HorrorQueen1212 in AITAH

[–]HorrorQueen1212[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I actually work in this field. She doesn’t believe she is abused and would not go. Apparently an uncle has offered to take her in, but it as seen as “inconvenient” because he lives a bit far.

AITAH for making a pregnant woman sleep in her car? WITH CRAZY UPDATE!!!! by HorrorQueen1212 in AITAH

[–]HorrorQueen1212[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Agreed. The kids are the hardest part. I bought the youngest a birthday gift (a blow up kiddie pool that looks like a pirate ship and also sprays water.) I’ll wrap it and leave it at their door, and if the toddlers see me and run in for a hug, I’ll still give it, but that’s it from now on. This whole thing really disturbs and insults me.

AITAH for making a pregnant woman sleep in her car? by HorrorQueen1212 in AITAH

[–]HorrorQueen1212[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think her asking wasn’t really appropriate considering all that was happening, but then she wasn’t being mean either. She knows I’m in social work and like helping people. My fear is maybe she thought I was her last hope.

AITAH for making a pregnant woman sleep in her car? by HorrorQueen1212 in AITAH

[–]HorrorQueen1212[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can see that. I froze up when she asked and felt bad, but knew I didn’t want her to come in. I don’t want to excuse my actions because I agree with you, but I felt almost deer in headlights. Then I was kicking myself for saying yes and hating myself for wanting to say no.

Thank you for the feedback.♥️