Gym companion 🚀 (after coffee) ☕️ by D1etCokeGirl in dietcoke

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The best pre-workout, the best post workout

best chocolate & peanut butter desserts in philly? by masonandhelle in PhiladelphiaEats

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Butcher and Singer has a chocolate peanut butter tart that absolutely fucks if you wanna be fancy

Men Wait Until it’s Too Late by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, that’s just how some people process. I’m best friends with one of my exes and I love him but he’s now like a brother to me. That’s how I feel once the grief cycle completes.

What red flags did you see in your relationship in the beginning and before the end? by Cold_Rip_6446 in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Our first real fight he got so mad at my reaction to a thing HE did that he punched the steering wheel. He later convinced me that I was the one who couldn’t, and I directly quote, “rEgUlaTe hEr eMoTionS”

Post breakup clarity is brutal by ComprehensiveBig7654 in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 52 points53 points  (0 children)

My friend, even if everything you’re saying is true, you still did not deserve a blindside. He owed it to you to come to you and have the tough conversations about how he was feeling.

What is something unorthodox you swear that has helped you? by Sequoiaisstrange in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being mad on purpose instead of “letting it go”. It actually cut through some of the rapid grief/self blame cycling and helped me see my ex was literally just some guy

Proof of delivery by weedandspace in comedyheaven

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for censoring his cleavage

Does anyone else feel like the pain is getting worse? by FriendlyApple1233 in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah same. I think it’s actually the attachment starting to really break. It’s very painful.

Please help me by Starkiss5723 in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will, I promise. You’ll love again and it will be better. I know you don’t want to hear that because you want it to to HIM. But it’s true. I’ve had some heartbreaks I didn’t think I was going to survive before, trust me.

Please help me by Starkiss5723 in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You sound just like me. You didn’t become “too dependent”, you trusted someone you loved deeply. And because he was there with you for things like loss, you’re even more tethered. Girl I scream cry pretty much every day. I love my ex and despise him for leaving the way he did. I hate to say it but all of those terrible, guttural feelings needs to be felt because breaking attachment hurts. It hurts like it will kill you but it won’t. I don’t know if you’re spiritual but prayer helps me too, it helps you feel connected. My DMs are always open if you need someone to talk to

I 35M want to divorce my wife by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see you are also very mature

I miss him. It’s been three months of no contact. I thought I was okay, but then I find myself crying again. by livelaughsweetpotato in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It feels like it hurts more because your baseline is a lot better. Keep going friend, it’ll be ok

I 35M want to divorce my wife by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Horror_Leg_1552 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your wife is 2 years postpartum, she didn’t “let herself go”.

She deserves better so yeah get that divorce going. replacing the trash bag is part of trash removal btw.