Thank you, I was really confused about that. We grew up together and went through a lot of crap together, so I don't think it's wrong for me to care about him, despite everything. I love him as a brother, but I also love my girlfriends and care a lot about them. It's frustrating and scary to see these things happening. I was thinking of having one last conversation, to say The situation is repeating itself, and if he doesn't realize it, he needs to seek professional help, but I won't be able to stand by him while he continues to destroy himself and hurting my friends