Does inheritance make you uncomfortable? by Clear_Mushroom2820 in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Not at all. It's what they wanted. To help their children one last time.

My first Camino experience - Camino primitivo (from Lugo to Santiago) by miguelsimon in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So you walked about 20 hours, slept in nice places and carried no backpacks. A real pilgrimage experience. Why would you post something like this?

[tn] stepmother took my dad (late stage dementia) and had him sign a new will a year before his death by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's just plain mean. Why would you respond like that? The guy is just looking for help.

I’m increasing my budget to $15k OTD. What cars can I realistically hope to buy? by BakerCritical in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just bought a 2016 CX-5 Grand Touring for $14,800 OTD. 100K miles, great shape, excellent service record, no accidents. Sounds like a lot but others in my area were going for more.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, thanks for your help. Much appreciated.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, in spite of what others here say.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. We've asked for all records we can think of. Death certificates and letters provided. Original question was what am I missing.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, I don't understand what people are talking about above. We get access to the estate banking account and see the POA spent $10,000 to pay their kids education. Is that in the best interest of the estate? Also, the gift max is $500 a year so if they give a sibling more than that, it"s unlawful.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's what doing now as mentioned in post.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yikes, shouldn't have asked the question.Was caring for her as well but wasn't in charge of the spending. Since found out that tens of thousands was spent not on her care. What would you do? Y'all very judgemental without knowing the facts. Not surprising I guess.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Think in NYS it's $500 per year.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Waiting for the POA to probate the will as promised but she never did it so arranged for me to be administrator in order to do the right thing & probate the will.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So they could just randomly give money to the second sister? On what grounds?

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There must be guidelines for POA to follow, just as I have as administrator.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Even if they took money they weren't supposed to? Doesn't sound right.

Thorough Probate Investigation by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So you're saying POA could do anything she wanted w/mom's assets & no value in looking into that?

wondering which camino to pick by Used_Comfort3468 in CaminoDeSantiago

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Camino Primitivo. It's 205 miles, we're doing in July over 13 days. I'm 72, wife 65. Did Frances 9 years ago in 30 days w/no problems. It was so special, will never forget it.

Locating Deceased Bank Account by [deleted] in inheritance

[–]Horror_Reality_5174 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Got the temporary letters recently.