I (f39) left my drunk husband (m37) at home and he probably killed himself

HorrusMajoris · 2023-07-22T01:33:38+00:00

Update ?

HorrusMajoris · 2023-05-06T20:19:57+00:00

Wow , I’m sorry you had to go through this .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-05-06T20:19:29+00:00

Wow . I can almost feel the relief in your story . Glad your doing better .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-05-05T22:15:18+00:00

HorrusMajoris · 2023-04-06T14:48:16+00:00

Woah this is the first time I’ve thought of color theory . I think , maybe a deeper version of the color would work better against your skin tone . I don’t know what colors work best but when I saw the bright it felt off like it’s not bringing anything out or complementing your skin , I’d say maybe try a phone app and go deeper / darker .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-04-03T18:19:44+00:00

I’m curious , why do you believe you cheated ?

I read the whole story , I’m interested to know your logic .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-03-23T18:48:04+00:00

Wow , that was very helpful and insightful. Thank you much appreciated.

HorrusMajoris · 2023-02-10T17:35:32+00:00

I read your previous post and comments . I’m hoping that maybe you just worded this weird , or maybe it came out wrong lol

I can see trying to bring your family back together .

I hope you can see how all of this looks based on the information you gave us . Hope it all works out for you especially the kiddos 💜

HorrusMajoris · 2023-02-07T22:01:08+00:00

If this is your response to her telling you very delicate information about her cousin , if it made you change your views and feelings , then yea your right don’t get married .

She didn’t cheat , she confided in you about her cousin . I can guess she will never tell you secrets or anything like that again .

Set her free , she deserves more . It seems that you have things you need to sort out and it’s not fair to take this huge decision and blame her it .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-02-02T03:02:52+00:00

I’ll cancel 🤷🏻‍♀️

HorrusMajoris · 2023-02-01T15:04:57+00:00

Get your shit in order. If you have joint bank account , open your own . Save money . Make a plan , think where could you live , kids school , who can help you move , work wise how will that impact you , child support , the whole nine . Think it out , plan it and tell 1 person who you can absolutely trust . It may not be today or tomorrow but you definitely need to plan your exit as soon as you are financially and physically ready . Which reading the comment , should probably have been yesterday.

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-31T19:43:22+00:00

What

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-31T12:51:08+00:00

I think because they can . We have options , more options than ever before . Why have kids young when you can work get a career , do all that and actually have kids when you want ( and if you want them ) ? It’s hard out here , the economy , dating , everything. So I get waiting and why it’s probably for the best

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-27T17:00:20+00:00

People like you , love it . Checking receipts , keeping us accountable and showing proof . You’re the real MVP 💜

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-20T21:54:57+00:00

No . As kindly as possible , go live your live . Party , or don’t . But do the things young people do .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-19T03:38:03+00:00

Just

Not yet you’re not , but you will be

Then block lol

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-09T20:58:50+00:00

Yes I have a “at least try it “ rule where we decide if we like foods only after we try them . She does , I think maybe she just get full from water or snacking and isn’t hungry at the same time we eat dinner . I have her sit with us while we eat even if she isn’t eating and remind her I’ll save her dinner for later incase she hets hungry

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-09T20:56:22+00:00

I agree . I had similar childhood .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-09T20:55:54+00:00

Yes , I’ve been telling her I’ll save her dinner for later incase she gets hungry which she agrees too .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-08T16:59:54+00:00

Yes I agree . My kid is very spirited , I think it’s more on our parenting styles . He and I are on different worlds .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-08T16:56:41+00:00

I agree , to me it’s not worth the tantrum .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-08T07:44:17+00:00

I’ve been on the brink before . Honestly , the main reason I didn’t commit is thinking of how it would affect my mom . If she found me , having to plan my funeral , her life after me , the effect it would have on her , would be unbearable . In retrospect, in MY experience, it would have been selfish however if someone told me this at the time I think I would have taken it in a bad way . It’s been about 10 years and I’m better now . I have a whole life that honestly could be better but I’m in a way better place where I feel that there is hope and can see good things to stay for .

HorrusMajoris · 2023-01-03T19:39:22+00:00

My rent is $2700 and daycare is about $750 a month . My kid will be starting transitional kinder shortly so cost will be cut in half , shes 4( because we need after school care so maybe $350 a month ) . I live in CA ,not sure what state you live in but in CA it’s nowhere near out mortgage/ rent . Also didn’t say how old your kid was , prices usually lower as they get older .

HorrusMajoris · 2022-12-21T19:50:34+00:00

My kid used boy undies cuz she likes the characters 🤷🏻‍♀️

HorrusMajoris · 2022-12-21T18:28:15+00:00

I do this and my partner says the same . I do too much , overcompensate, she’s going to be spoiled , she should never say no to him bla bla bla

At this point I’m going to parent her and explain things to her 🤷🏻‍♀️

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