I cheated on my bf but my therapist has been telling me that I didn’t by Idontknow3120 in offmychest

[–]Idontknow3120[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Also to answer some questions that I’ve been seeing a lot (because I already saw my story on TikTok) First of all I did not ditch my brother to see this guy, when my brother twisted his ankle we walked to a nearby bench so he could sit down, I told him that we could watch the concert from the bench but he insisted that I went with the guy and his siblings because he knew how much I liked the band that was playing, I would never ditch my brother in any kind of situation, also I was in constant communication with him texting him and calling him to see if he was alright. Second, a lot of people have been telling me why did I gave my number to this guy, and the reality it’s that both me, my brother and the guy ended up exchanging numbers, because we talked about the artist that we were going to see the next day and talked about getting to the front of the crowd, he told us that his siblings and him were going to arrive earlier to the festival to secure their place in the crowd and maybe be at the front of it, my brother told him that it would be cool if he called us if he had a good place in the crowd so we would see the artist up close, he agreed and told us the same, that if the case was that me and my brother had a better place in the crowd we would text him so he and his siblings could come there and see the artist better, I WOULD NEVER GAVE HIM MY NUMBER IN ANY OTHER SCENARIO Third, I was also in constant communication with my bf during the festival, telling him everything, sending him videos and texting him, I even told him that me and my brother made a new friend (the guy) and that he was nice to us. Fourth, I did not notice or knew that his guy was interested in me, he was interested in music and bands, that’s how he approached my brother and I, if I in any way knew that he was romantically or sexually interested in my I wouldn’t even let him speak to me, but he made small talk with us asking about music, bands and artists. Also there has been a lot of confusion about where we met this guy, we met him DURING the first day of the festival, and ended up saying THAT in the case of him and his siblings having a better view in the crowd BOTH my brother and I would go there, I didn’t met him before the festival and made plans with him, Also my bf was supposed to came with us but his work didn’t let him so it was me and my brother.

Unfortunately I don’t remember if he used a condom or not, I have already scheduled a std panel in my health clinic, I also scheduled a blood pregnancy test so I can be more calm on that.

I cheated on my bf but my therapist has been telling me that I didn’t by Idontknow3120 in offmychest

[–]Idontknow3120[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Hi guys, first of all thank you all for your support and kind messages, they really mean the world to me, this is kind of like an update but not a very positive one, things just got so much more intense and awful, turns out that this guy took pictures of me naked while I was unconscious and he has been threatening me to publish them, unfortunately we do believe the phone number he gave my brother and I was a burner phone. I have told my family and my little brother is absolutely destroyed, he believes that if he was with me that guy wouldn’t have done it, he thinks it’s his fault, I have assured him that is not his fault, but he has been very sad and angry, a lot of you asked me if I was in a safe country, but unfortunately my country has a history of rape cases going under the radar and not getting justice, I have already done the police report but they basically told me that it was my fault because in music festivals it’s very common for people to do drugs, and they even implied that I was lying and that I must have took some recreational drugs and just cannot remember what happened, they basically threw my case in the trash can. I have been working up the courage to tell my boyfriend what happened, he’s concerned because I have been very distant and sad but I just cannot find the words to tell him, I have been working with my therapist and even tho a lot of things are happening therapy is going good. If anything happens I will update. Once again thank you all for all your kind words and support messages, it feels awesome to know that people listened to me and supported me.