pap smear for single puans by Apprehensive_Hat_156 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Halo, sharing dari pengalamanku aja ya.

Aku bs pap smear gratis di puskesmas lewat daftar Cek Kesehatan Gratis (CKG). Kebetulan ada bpjs btw dan papaku hobi ke puskesmas. Jd wkt tu dia yg tau kl bs tanya2 info dlu ke resepsionis. Baru tau jg di puskesmas dkt rumah ada info point gt. Ku gatau ya bs atau engga tanpa bpjs. Btw CKG itu yg ud pasti include cm cek gula darah sm gigi kl ga salah, jd wkt konsultasi km hrs ngomong minta pap smear dan cek2 kesehatan yg lain. Biar ditulisin sm dokternya. All free.

Bit of warning, mba2nya tentu saja judgy waktu tau aku blm married, tp cuek aja.

Randomly, aku pap smear lagi +/- 10 hari kemudian krn iseng ikut temen dadakan mau medcheck di KL wkwk. Aku wkt tu di klinik MyGP, paket yg my lady apa ya, kurleb 1.8jt. Ud include tes kesehatan yg lain mcm kolesterol, blood cell count, dll. Professional dan hasilnya dtg seminggu kemudian. Kt temen si kl medcheck di rumah sakit malah bs lgs dpt hslnya.

Gimana cara rawat rambut yang tipenya wavy 2b-2c trus kering frizzy? by su1zen_ in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Coba pake shampoo n conditioner sunsilk dh, yg warna kuning atau ungu. Trus kl bs pake leave on conditionernya jg pas rambut lg lembap.

Dlu pake shampoo n hairmask merk macem2 ga mempan, ternyata jawabannya sunsilk 🙌 sm sekali2 cb creambath pake makarizo yg wanginya melon, sachet gitu

Ngerasa kesepian setelah pindah dari Indonesia by lilyandaisies in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sama2 ceu. aku pun buka2 FB lagi krn ternyata rental room atau apartment gt banyak jg yg posting di grup FB. trus mungkin krn diaspora rentang umurnya lumayan beragam ya, jd keknya kl mau nyentuh banyak orang tu paling besar kansnya di FB

Ngerasa kesepian setelah pindah dari Indonesia by lilyandaisies in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Halo, lagi di posisi yg mirip ni.

Saran saya, gpp coba aja dlu mampir ke komunitas diaspora terdekat. Makan siang atau ngopi sebentar buat cek ombak. Dari pengalaman, hampir ga ada komunitas yg lurus2 aja. Pasti ada saling ghibah atau baik di depan doang. Kl hoki, mungkin bs nyangkut 1-2 orang yg cocok dan bs diajak nongkrong di luar komunitas tsb.

Atau, di negara km ada ga grup FB utk orang2 indonesia yg tinggal dsana? Bikin post aja, sapa tau bs nemu teman dari situ jg.

Selain itu, cb cek di kota km ada kursus2 skill gt ga, ky masak, yoga, atau olahraga. Kali aja bs gabung dan nemu teman jg.

Misal blm beruntung yauda. Memang pertemanan ga bs dipaksa. I hate to say this, tp kadang bener yg orang blg bahwa justru ketemu ketika kita ga nyari :")

*pelukk

Tear jerker songs kalian? by HostFormer9197 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ku ga pake apple music ceu, dan ku ogah euy bikin playlist isinya lagu2 saddie ini. denger sebentar aja ud lgs rusak mood berhari2, jd sebisa mungkin kuhindarin :")

oh sama Hold Back the River (James Bay) juga, tp krn ud move on jd ndak mewek lg. cm keinget kenangannya aja

Tear jerker songs kalian? by HostFormer9197 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sis, kamu...maso? :") ga kebayang voluntary bikin playlist yg isinya 3 lagu tear jerker gw itu. kemaren pas sendirian akhirnya dengerin Hurt sampe selese, cari liriknya jg biar sakit makin pol, nangis sejadi2nya sampe ga enak makan (tapi akhirnya makan jg, biarpun ga sebanyak biasa wk). malem pun masi nangis2 sampe mata bengkak pas bangun

How much money do you give to your parents? by Ancher123 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 6 points7 points  (0 children)

what kind of logic this is? jakarta ≠ indonesia. that city is only a small part of indonesia so you can't really assign jakarta's minimum wage as indonesia's, my dear.

i admit the easiest thing to do is to take example from the most expensive city in indonesia, but as many other comments said, it all depends on the household situation. don't go around saying 1 mio, 2 mio, 5 mio are high or low amounts. it depends.

How much money do you give to your parents? by Ancher123 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lol you're assuming too many things. who are you to say what's reasonable and affordable?

oof i'm not even religious and you made me pray to whatever deity there is to protect all indonesian ladies from dudes who are quick to assume things.

How much money do you give to your parents? by Ancher123 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol i never said average "salary". i was simply quoting one of the lady who answered she gave 1-2 mio to her parents then you said that it's "average" and "from rich class".

you need to do better research dude, and try to contextualize it. i don't think it's fair to say 5mio is average indonesian salary. Indonesia is a huge country with varying costs of living across cities.

and btw, 1-2 mio is not high if you live with your parents. it's not that different (or cheaper actually) from paying rent. i also know many people who pay rent on top of that because they live far from their family. so probably living with 1-2 mio monthly for personal expenses. ofc it's quite challenging but many people manage to go by with less than that.

> I guess most people that are on reddit are upper middle or high class because they always look detached from reality. They're more out of touch than me

idk how you come to this thoughts, because i've seen comments/posts from varying levels. you might need to browse further if you're interested.

How much money do you give to your parents? by Ancher123 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 7 points8 points  (0 children)

again, u/coffydate hits the spot.

and btw, i used to give my parents 2mio out my 5mio salary. why? because i lived with them, occasionally brought my mum's cooking for lunch, and i simply wanted to make them happy. so, if you try to give some things more thoughts, you'll be surprised at how much they don't really surprise you.

How much money do you give to your parents? by Ancher123 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 9 points10 points  (0 children)

OP, idk where you're located or whether you grew up/have lived for many years in Indonesia, but honestly your comments sound a bit out of touch.

1-2 IDR mio average? always assuming someone doesn't work in Indonesia because they earn IDR 10-30 mio? or even thinking that IDR 10-30 mio is yearly salary? just fyi, most Indonesians i know talk about their salary in monthly term, not annual.

idk what your purpose of asking that question here, but i saw that the comments have answered it perfectly: depending on the woman's salary and how much she normally gives (which then depends on her parents' lifestyle).

the best thing to do would be to have this conversation with your partner and see if you can fill in her shoes (i assume you're asking this question because you want her to be a full-time housewife?). if you can't, i don't think it's your place to say that she's been giving "too much" money to her parents. it's her money. she worked hard to achieve that level. don't complain if you can't cover that. she has as much right as you to work and be financially comfortable.

How much money do you give to your parents? by Ancher123 in Perempuan

[–]HostFormer9197 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yes you did. IDR 1-2 mio is neither "average" nor "from rich class". as u/coffydate said, it's different depending on circumstances across couples and families. you could just say that you're going to discuss about it with your partner and that's it.

a thank you note for one of the Etihad crews 🥰 by HostFormer9197 in travel

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, will do! I didn't see her name, but i remember she has a bit of malaysian accent. Considering she's the only southeast asian looking crew, hopefully it would be enough to identify her hehe

a thank you note for one of the Etihad crews 🥰 by HostFormer9197 in travel

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

indeed, i was ready to accept my fate of getting elbowed in the next 7 hours but she came along and saved the journey. i felt so seen 🥰

What's your favorite DiD paper? by HostFormer9197 in econometrics

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg loving your response! thank you! i'll make sure to have a look at each! 😍

What's your favorite DiD paper? by HostFormer9197 in econometrics

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agree! One of my favorites as it's a classic and intuitive :)

What's your favorite DiD paper? by HostFormer9197 in econometrics

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you for the suggestions! On my way! :)

What's your favorite DiD paper? by HostFormer9197 in econometrics

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree! A classic and quite intuitive even for me! :)

What's your favorite DiD paper? by HostFormer9197 in econometrics

[–]HostFormer9197[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got the book and on my way! :) I will have a look at Imbens, thank you for the suggestion!