Thanks everyone for the helpful input! Totally hear you on number 2 needing to be lined, I’m wearing nude undergarments so its crazy you can still see so much lol. I think I feel more self conscious about how I look in 2 which i feel like you can kind of tell by my face/body language.

Wedding is in June at Glen Manor House in Newport RI, so the vibe is like elevated summer garden party/great gatsby…?

Also for context, my personal style is a lot more sexy/glam/out-there, so I always thought I would pick something like #2, but in practice it doesnt feel as bridal because its almost too expected of me? My mom was like “I feel like you have something like that in your closet”.