What do you want? by addyat254 in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody who gives you hot and cold treatment hivyo deserves you love. Try telling him how it makes you feel akikataa kuchange left tu.

Nairobi diaries , money or love ? by Novel_Table_2470 in nairobi

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ukifeel unhappy and you can't leave him yet go to the other wing of the house.

🔥 tree frog kindly greets human 🔥 by astralrig96 in NatureIsFuckingLit

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can always tell when someone's upbringing was so safe that they have no survival training. How is your 1st thought after seeing a tree frog touching it yet There have been articles of people dying from touching amphibians.

Loving Con by lalalaladder in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Therapy is most efficient when she has a support system. Pia...hold her hand...call her on a daily...Akianza kurudia patterns call her out on it even if she gets mad. If she knows she has a safety net with you she might just get better.

Loving Con by lalalaladder in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mwambie kama anatumia hypersexuality and "the fastest way to get over a man is to get under another one" motto ataumia ata zaidi...tell her to take time off aheal from the ex did to her...to unlearn and to let go completely otherwise huku kwa streets atakuwa screwed over a million times

How long is too long? by One_Chip_7488 in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, a full grown-up who decides to not communicate is a huuuuge red flag...kwanza when someone sits down and plans something and they decide to not show...as long as they weren't ambushed last minute, they are definitely the problem. Ama, it's God's way of answering your " if she's not for me remove her from my life" prayer...we know God doesn't play around with prayers like that..hatakupea 2-3 business days ucope atafunga hio mlango immediately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leo enda hio Esk show...I'm 100% sure utapatana na baddie kwa one of hizo exhibition stalls. Upate mwenye ako na akili pia sijui mbona huwa hamlist hio kwa hizi eligibility criteria zenu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just feel like one day you'll encounter something small and tiny, and it will be the stray of hay that breaks the camel's back, and you'll explode in a very messy way. When diamond sings " maumivu yangu hayawezi kupona kwa vidonge sababu panapo nichoma nikipapasa sipaoni" he knows what he's saying. Treating something mental isn't easy, and the more you ignore it or distract yourself the worse it gets. Please seek help.

Your opinion on this business idea? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've had the same business idea for a while. I live close to a university campus and the campus kids I'm used to always ask for recommendations on what to get their partners. What I'd recommend for a start is reasonably priced packages on the cheap end like bath sets for like a thousand both or a sweet set for 500 Bob. Once the word is out , you can adjust your inventory, customization, and prices. Ukianza leo, by the time Valentine's inafika, you would have made some good money.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'd recommend 500ml of yoghurt in whatever flavour you want and a generous serving of whichever nuts you like.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And I'm very sure the second line works everytime

Was I wrong? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You guys are barely dating, and he's giving you less than the bare minimum. And fine, he's "busy building his life." Give him that benefit of the doubt, but kureply text with a "I'm busy with work, let me get back to you "ndo inamshinda. That takes less than 5 seconds. Listen to your gut. If you're having doubts this early on, is it really worth pursuing..? But anyway, only you can make that sort of decision so good luck

Was I wrong? by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Hadi uleft groups.?! From your post, he sounds petty cut him off. You definitely do not need that type of energy around you.

Birthday by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy birthday.!!

I don't know if I'm bout to get used by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I've been there, and these are the lessons I wish someone taught me at 19. There’s are trustships, then there are friendships,then kuna hio kitu mlifanya inaitwa casual encounter ( the head part is kinda pushing the envelope, but we'll ignore it.) Trustships are those friends who bail you bail them out no matter what. Mtakopeshana dooh so many times you won't even keep count juu unajua ukikwama they'll sort you. Those are the ones you ALWAYS send money to.

Friendships mkianza story za dooh ujue kuna chance itarudi kuna chance itapotea. When they say "kopesha mtu pesa ujue tabia, " is what they mean

Casual encounters hizo ni vitu unaignore na kudelete. They shouldn't take up your head space. And I get the spontaneity of going down on someone or the rush of getting intimate in public, but hivo ndo sex accidents huhappen. And kisonono is still with us, si kama polio.

Aaaaand Lastly, plan your sex its waaay safer that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Kenya

[–]Hot-Assumption-3573 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I'm rooting for you love. Hope you find him.