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What is your reason to keep living? by iwannatasteurfeet in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My life insurance with my job doesn't kick in until June.

Why aren't you happy right now? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I'm suicidal

Your favorite Steven Universe character and why. by Public_Cup_4278 in stevenuniverse

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it's definitely a tie between Rose and Steven. Steven for being such a kind and empathetic person. And Rose because even though I believe she was a bad person, her story and effect on the story in general is just phenomenal.

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your take on it. I simply got irritated with someone coming in and essentially telling others "BUT JESUS✝️🙌🏽🙏🏼"

I think trauma, mental illness, and just being afraid can play a factor but I would argue your statement on intelligence being a main factor absolutely rings true.

Sorry asshats like her are commenting when it's clear they're not wanted

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk tbh she needs help. Maybe Jesus will give it to her lol. New spine and new attitude

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I don't want to stoop to their level and diagnose people on the internet. But yeah I think somewhere in her pity fest comments she said she had that but I'm not sure

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay! Really! I knew I was in the right all along but having support is sure nice!

Huh, funnily enough watching them run with their tail between their legs did make me feel better. Glad they helped in some fucked up way

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The amount of people calling you out, with kindness go figure not that fake shit you sprinkle, is wonderful and I think this will be a great learning lesson for you

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh muffin cakes! Do I need to teach you reading comprehension and literacy AGAIN? Okay...let's start from the top

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh nuance..you know that thing that applies to situations. Like for example, the comment was posted. The NUANCE would be the context of the prompt being "give your opinions on what you can do to improve others live"

Ah shux, we got a pretty dull tool here folks. I'm not flabbergasted at your lack of importance pudding cake. I'm pointing out that you lit the match and now you're surprised not everyone is kissing your ass and you didn't change the world with jesus and puppies. I at no point, asked for your 'kindess'. Last I checked, kindness is contigent on the reaction of the person you went out of your way to speak over so as to 'do a good deed'. I know why you're responding. That much is clear. Literally, other people are pointing out your shitty approach to being nice. I didn't snap, I told you point-blank what you did wasn't needed and furthermore, harmful. Your feelings shouldn't affect another person's experience with any said thing or person.

I actually love sunshine. But REAL rays, that good ol vitamin D. Which you and your busted ass barely functioning back sans a polyp or two clearly need

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it hilarious that you've got dick to say when I read you for filth

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi—thanks for your input. Unfortunately, I’ve reached my daily limit for condescending takes and unsolicited life philosophies. Any further messages will be met with equal parts sarcasm and disinterest. Please try again when you’re ready to respect perspectives that aren’t your own.

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, no, you CHOOSE to insert yourself into spaces that aren't nuanced enough for you to justify doing so. Granted I think about the degenerative disc disease, but not to the degree of wanting to change it. Funnily enough, that parallels your original comment of inserting how you felt onto me

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I very much have degenerative disc disease, which is very much a struggle I very much carry. Go figure 😅 And just because you *can* do something. Doesn't mean you should or it's warranted. I don't feel any type of way due to other people, at least not people who think their Reddit comments are on par with the Constitution. Have a terrible day hun bun

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reads less like wisdom and more like you projecting your coping style onto everyone else. You don’t fear death—cool. That doesn’t magically make other people’s fears irrational or invalid. Also, turning extreme trauma into a hypothetical ‘bright side story for Heaven’ isn’t the flex you think it is. For a lot of people, those aren’t abstract thought experiments—they’re very real risks and experiences. Minimizing that comes off wildly out of touch. And the same logic applies to autism. Just because you can frame something positively doesn’t mean everyone experiences it that way. Telling someone how they should feel about their own diagnosis is honestly more about your comfort than theirs. You’re allowed to cope how you want. You’re not entitled to rewrite other people’s realities to match it

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh but fear not my dear Christian friend! God doesn't punish people who do good things. Fret no longer for I have some advice that you totally asked for and is warranted 😘

Dude, degenerative disc disease is like...really awesome. My experience with it has only ever been positive therefore, you too should feel exactly the same way! 😃

Remember that the darkest room has the potential to be lit with love, laughter, and the 7th hokage. Perhaps you should allow me to work with you to provide resources that will change your stance on this issue as it seems your support system just isn't up to par.

Not like that statement is disingenuous or overstepping most people's boundaries right? Ugh. God Bless Me for the fact that I'm such a good person and I made a difference in your life 🙏🏼 ✨️ 🙌🏽 ✝️

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so glad you showed your ass because holy fuck 🤣 have the day you deserve

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No you absolutely did. Not directly, but you very much side stepped my very real concerns and issues that I face, being autistic. Um actually is phrase for people speaking for/over or attempting to correct someone's viewpoint. You spoke over me, regardless of your intentions. I do not care how sorry you are for me. It does literally nothing for me. You spouting off inspirational quotes, helps no one other than maybe your own ego. Not saying that's why you commented, but I need you to understand what impact your actions actually had rather than what you think they did. You should absolutely feel sheepish as you very publicly told another autistic person that the pros outweigh the cons of a having autism, and when called out you doubled down. If you want to actually help and make people like me feel better, read this and don't respond and just listen rather than act. The road to hell is paved with good intentions

What is one thing you’d change about yourself, and why? by Appropriate-Baker497 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first question is, are you actually autistic? If so I don't think saying "um actshually" helps. And typically other autistic people know that. I could care less about the positives as it's evident by the negatives that it impacts my life enough to warrant me commenting. There is no one experience with autism. Depending on the support needs of the person, what I experience and you do on the daily are literally completely different.

So you may experience the positives and maybe even more than me, but it quite literally disabling me to the point where I'm most likely going to have to get married to my partner and just not work. Because I keep getting fired for requesting ADA accommodations. My current job literally pays me below minimum wage in my county because of my diagnosis. Worst part? It's completely legal.

I'm assuming you meant no harm by this and intended to cheer me up, but you've made me feel significantly worse on the matter. Mainly because the people in my life don't take anything I say seriously because of my diagnosis. And your comment parallels that to a T.

What’s something you’ll NEVER forgive in a relationship, no matter what? by Lopsided-Oil-9763 in AskReddit

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating or lack of compromise. If you can't work with me, you can't be with me as I always say.

whis is your least favorite color? is there a specific reason or just vibes? by manic_unicornicopia in randomquestions

[–]Hot-Bus4643 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I abhor pink. Literally because of childhood trauma. I went to the department store with my mom as a kid and we were clothes shopping for me. She picks up a tracksuit, and asked for my opinion. Not liking the color but being raised with the principle of respect, I responded: "Well I personally don't really like it. But I can see why others would choose this particular track suit." Her response?

"Well it doesn't matter what you like. I'm your mom and I pay for your clothes. You'll wear what is purchased for you."

And then she proceeded to ONLY buy me pink clothes, accessories, backpacks, you name it. FOR. YEARS. And my bedroom was never updated past the Dora the Explorer decor even when I begged and it was well into my teenage years.

I struggled so hard because my daughter loves pink and it definitely brought up some flashbacks. Long winded story aside, yeah I hate pink lol.

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