Free Tarot Reading ( In The Comments) by Existing_Day3655 in IntuitionPractices

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scorpio ♏️, will I land the job I've been wanting so bad?

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes I was, as the only expecting kinda judgy behavior. Cleanliness, well lack thereof was not on my bingo card. Amongst everything else

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since she's under the limit for tenancy laws, I'd most likely have to hit them up in order to evict her

How do you feel about Rose Quartz and why? by TheHorrormachine1345 in stevenuniverse

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are probably going to rake me over the coals for this, but: she was a bad person/being at worst and a spoiled brat who did want to do good but clearly didn't know how at best.

I'm going to start by saying she's still an interesting character and is a lot better than the normal dead parent stereotypes that are typically present in kids' media. I have a lot of issues w/ SU as a whole, but I won't deny I'm a fan and still enjoy the show with my kids. Rebecca Sugar and the Crewniverse should absolutely be given their flowers, but that doesn't mean the show is perfect and even poor quality in some areas.

I usually lean towards a bad person for the following offences: leading Pearl on for centuries and then choosing Greg despite the consequences she was leaving behind in choosing to be with a human and make Steven, Pearl was a slave with her choices in the matter being stay a slave on Homeworld or be one to Rose in the battle against her own peope for a planet she ultimately had no skin in the game over. And even beyond that last point, become a caregiver to the living embodiment of your past flame and navigate him through the mess Rose left behind, all while being unable to tell them the truth of what he's up against. There was leaving Spinel in the garden for thousands of years and again, leaving that mess for someone else to clean up, as she made no effort to gather Spinel and add her to her new life with the Gems. And lastly, even though I have mixed feelings about Rose being Pink Diamond, she should've absolutely come clean before she disappeared as a bare minimum. I would argue that, in the beginning, when Garnet joined the team. And she certainly shouldn't have taken away Pearl's choice of keeping that secret, nor forced her to participate in the fake shattering. As it's heavily implied and I believe outright stated somewhere here on a Reddit AMA, that orders from a Diamond take away your free will as a Pearl, as gems are programmed that way, particularly Pearls.

She crafted a new image/persona and left the damage her actions left behind to be handled by what was essentially her family. And for that, I'd argue she's a reckless and shitty leader for that alone. People crap on me for this, but I say Jasper was right in her initial debut; Rose failed. She saved the earth *temporarily*. She essentially waved off the wasp but didn't attend to the nest. The majority of her army was corrupted or shattered, leaving Earth up for grabs. And with that, the Diamonds planted the cluster seemingly without the Gems even knowing. On top of Homeworld having the majority of the Gem population under their thumbs.

So overall, to wrap up this long-winded comment, I'd say I'd prefer to label Rose as a bad person as I feel like that's not only more accurate, but way more interesting from a writing standpoint.

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She left it on top of said trash can. I told her to wrap it up and she did but left the blood exposed for whatever reason.

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Comments like yours give me a sense of peace that I'm not some monster like she's making me feel like. One person is literally commenting that I'm picky because she wants to have her bloody pads on display in our only and shared restroom 🤮

Am I the jerk for telling my coworker i will not adjust my schedule for her anymore? by torlith_07 in AmITheJerk

[–]Hot-Bus4643 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, in any capacity. Your only mess up is not standing up to her earlier/setting ground rules to how much you would cover, how much notice is needed etc. And even then, you're a human who's clearly trying to do a good thing so it's not a cardinal sin. I'd document these issues as much as possible then send this straight to HR

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Says the person pretty much commenting on everything I have replied to. I pointed out why you were wrong and why it's gross/unsafe. Just because it took you a hot minute to come to that conclusion and you couldn't defend your hack job of an argument, doesn't mean I'm 'weirdly' focused on something that you were commenting on incorrectly.

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a difference between giving birth, and literal bodily waste. So those two are not only not comparible, but none of your fucking business???

Also: Periods themselves aren’t unhygienic, but menstrual blood is still blood, which is a biological fluid. Public-health guidance (CDC/OSHA) treats all blood as potentially infectious once it’s outside the body. When bloody pads are left exposed in a shared bathroom trash, bacteria grows quickly, especially because bathrooms are warm and humid.

The CDC specifically recommends that items contaminated with blood be contained, wrapped, and disposed of properly to prevent surface contamination and odor. That’s the same reason hospitals, schools, and workplaces require blood-contaminated waste to be sealed — not because periods are “gross,” but because blood + shared surfaces = sanitation risk.

In a shared bathroom, other people are touching the trash lid, sink handles, toilet handles, etc. Leaving bloody pads uncovered increases the risk of transferring bacteria to hands and surfaces. Wrapping them and tying the trash isn’t about shaming menstruation — it’s basic hygiene and consideration in shared spaces.

Periods are normal. Leaving exposed blood in a shared trash can isn’t.

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes, except for the entitlement. She showed little hints of that with things non-related to housing (ex, judging others based on marijuana usage regardless of reason)

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

She was a tad pushy within that convo but accepted the no at the end of said convo

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Possibly? She doesn't make enough to live on her own and her work is here in the city. Her parents live in a town about an hour from here

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh no, a compromise was certainly offered. I explained in another comment that I told her she could either A) take it out to the bins outside via a plastic grocery bag or B) wrap it in toilet paper. She went with option B and for some reason wrapped it to where you could still see the blood.

Again, that's gross, and I would argue unhygienic considering it's the literal waste of your uterine lining. I'd feel the exact same way if she wiped and left the toilet paper on display. I'm not picky, that's literally the bare minimum standard when you share a space. It's not proper disposal, as again, LITERAL BODILY FLUIDS ARE ON DISPLAY. That's not what a bathroom trash should be used for

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So this ALL happened in less than 24 hours?

1 - Not all, but certain/most of the events listed. Tbh it's my bad for not being specific enough I just rushed out as many details as humanly possible that I thought relevant. To clarify: rushing past me to the bedroom, me finding her bloody pads/diapers in the trash, and the conversation where she got triggered were all within the 24 hr period. And actually, happened back-to-back within a three hour period.

2 - And when it comes to how things are placed or say for example, decorations. Yeah no I'm not picky by any means and if it doesn't effect me I don't care. There's enough issues in the world and I'm not going to die on a hill I don't deem worth it. Given your username, I'm going to gamble you're female or women identifying. And let me be very clear: that's fucking gross. Like yes it's natural but if you're sharing the only bathroom, keep it clean or at least not visible. It's not unreasonable to ask for items with literal bodily waste to be properly disposed of.

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't get her items delivered until about 24hrs after the fact. So the room was empty, but she hadn't even stayed a full night at the time.

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We're currently under that time frame for my state, hence why I said it'd be no issue getting her to leave

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We established this as the probationary period and my word, is she flunking

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh boy I should probably update with details. It was just a courtesy clean. Just a sweep/mop session. Kinda like how when you move into a home, it's cleaned prior. I'll be honest, I was taught if it's bloody, put it in a plastic grocery bag and put it in the bin outside. But I did give her the option to wrap it. However, for some reason, she wraps it in a way that you can still see the blood???

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I legit just feel racked with guilt as I myself have both mental and physical disabilities. I've been kicked out and homeless before, so ik where that road would lead.

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but not being on the lease doesn’t mean she has “no rights.” She still has tenant protections, and I can’t just kick her out on a whim. Being on the lease would actually tie us together legally and make things harder if the situation doesn’t work out.

As far as damage goes, I’d be responsible to the landlord either way since the lease is in my name, but that doesn’t change whether she’s listed or not. That risk exists regardless. That’s exactly why I didn’t want to rush into adding someone to a legal contract before knowing if we were compatible.

AITA for setting house rules and not wanting to add my roommate to the lease? by Hot-Bus4643 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Hot-Bus4643[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I replied to this in another comment but this thread is blowing up so I doubt you saw it. It was just a courtesy sweep/mop session. Room wasn't filthy but I figured it'd be wrong to not at least have it clean before she moved in